I found my husband when I was not looking. I think when one is not looking they don't have as many walls set in place and perhaps can see a wider view of people.

 Love isn't found like that. It is dropped into your lap, and takes you for the ride, not the other way around.

 People can usually convince themselves of just about anything and Love is one of those things. It is tantamount to reading your horoscope, visiting a fortune teller or any other baseless, non-measurable issue. If someone wants to believe they will believe what they think not what things are in reality. Infatuation and love are two different things and to meet someone and think that love actually exist is highly speculative. Relationship work because both parties work at the relationship and love grows from these joint efforts. The only exception would perhaps be your offspring but then again you raise them from birth and develop the level of responsibility and admiration for what you have raised just as from what you have created in art, a home and business. When hard-work and commitment are involved a sense of pride of ownership follows.

 You have to give up the chase before you find the right gal.

 LOVE seems to find you when you are not looking.

 If love was meant to be it will find you...

 I don't think so.

 No most people just find themselves falling for each other. The people who look for love are usually heart broken.

 A person who appears needy is more likely to attract a codependent. The best way to find love is not to be looking to receive it, but to be giving it.

 Its all relative but its best when you least expect it

 My mother met my stepdad when she wasn't looking for love or a relationship, and I met my man when I was gonna swear off men for a while.