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Can A Clear Friendship Exist Between A Boy And A Girl?
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by Kalendrai Kalendrai
 12 Jul 2007 11:23  
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 I am against it. There is no way exist a friendship like that. There will be ALWAYS problems. Btw to start a friendship like that means one of them is in love with the other. So! Yes ! Thats not called FRIENDSHIP
 12 Sep 2007 15:25
by Nasos Nasos
 Of course, I am a man and have many female friends that I have no sexual interest in.
 12 Aug 2007 02:57
by Fallse Fallse
 Yes a girl and a boy can be friends after all we are all human beings,you like someone unconditionally and you become friends with him or her so its the mutual love and the caring that matters not the others person's gender.
 14 Sep 2008 09:16
by Amansingh Amansingh
 Yes, definitely.Im friends with my male cousin and I would NEVER be in love with him.
 30 Jul 2007 20:44
by Justice14 Justice14
 It is possible to have only a friendship basis with another gender. I have a male friend I have known for 6 years now and we are only friends. He is like a ling lost older brother and vice versa. Its just like having a third brother only from a different family in a sense.
 17 Nov 2008 00:04
by Dragon143 Dragon143
 It can between girl and boy, got it?
 10 Nov 2008 18:32
by Ohfamily Ohfamily
 Hey it s possible but anyways there has to be a limit for everything .If the limit exceeds the friendship will be ruined .But if it were friendship between the same gender there need not be any limits.
 16 Oct 2007 07:46
by Jayagowri Jayagowri
 Yea. I have a best friend name willie and we have no feels towards eachother. We knew eachother since the second grade
 07 Nov 2008 20:17
by Stephylee Stephylee
 Yeah of course it can!!!!!!
 29 Oct 2008 20:46
by Gymfreak Gymfreak
 Yes .. It probably depends on the two
 23 Oct 2008 18:22
by Shuba Shuba
 Why I have a best m8 who is a guy named Jack I actually prefer him to my girl mates. And no we're not attracted to eachother because we asked and we're totally cool with being just friends. My Mum has loadza guy m8s don't make no difference whether your friends with a girl or a boy, And it don't always result in love. My mum has had loadza guy m8s and she has never gone out with them and she is still good friends with them after so many years. And to those whom disagree with this statement typical I just think it is from bad experience, why we're not living in a country were you're not allowed to be friends with a guy. Like nearly all my friends are guys lol, and i still managed to keep it just a good friendship.
Depends what you think..
 18 Oct 2008 16:47
by Anneka2 Anneka2
 Yes a clear friendship can exist between boy and a girl! Me and my friend are living proof that it's possible for there to be a clear platonic relationship.
 12 Oct 2008 22:27
by Kewlangel Kewlangel
 Yes of course women have brains as do men .They can share many other things other than intimacy.
 19 Sep 2008 05:17
by Bismah Bismah
 Yep most of my friends in school were guys... I didn't like to gossip so I only had one friend that was a girl.
 06 Sep 2008 09:13
by Ryanna Ryanna
 Of course it is possible it has happen to me,he was my friend and protector.
 24 Aug 2008 01:25
by Bgirl525 Bgirl525
 Been there, done that, got the T shirt.

TRANSLATION: Yes, its possible, I've done it many times.
 24 Jul 2008 08:40
by Sanotin Sanotin
 Sure,it can happen!! The world is full of amazing things that are hard to believe and friendship between the opposite sex is one of many
 15 Jul 2008 17:04
by Panson Panson
 Why not? I really do think that it can be clear.
 05 Jul 2008 16:35
by Friendly Friendly
 Of course. Most of my friends are guys and we don't want to get any further than that!
 02 Jul 2008 19:06
by Hellopeopl Hellopeopl
 Girls and guys should be friends. Just like girls and girls and guys and guys can be friends.
 27 Jun 2008 19:08
by 10natalie0 10natalie0
 Sure, I had clear lady friendships.
 15 Jun 2008 21:10
by Zexion Zexion
 Its possible, but it doesn't always happen. Like with me, I have 2 guy friends and I have a crush on one of them. So with the one guy I don't have a crush on, we have a simple friendship. Unless he has a crush on me........but that would be weird because he's my bff's bro. Anyway...yep, its possible.
 07 May 2008 22:15
by Jbluvr24 Jbluvr24
 Yes i have lots of friends with guys and i think it is okay i get along with them better then women anyway.
 03 May 2008 23:19
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 Yes I've been friends with a guy forever and we are just friends believe me no love involved...JUST FRIENS
 17 Apr 2008 02:10
by Lolipopr22 Lolipopr22
 Yes they can just be friends,or have a friendship.in some friendships between a boy and a girl may be as if they like eachother,and they may. But in some friendships, you can just be friends... [ say if you think your friends with the ugly,stinkyest, boy in school but your still friend and no more than that, you can just be friends if you like, its really your decision if you just want to be friends or not ,no one else]. Because we cant chose for your heart,only you can........good luck......
 06 Apr 2008 17:25
by Hot-beach Hot-beach
 Yes I do believe that men and women can have platonic friendships.
 27 Mar 2008 22:42
by Pencil Pencil
 Of course!! Boys and girls can be friends!
 24 Feb 2008 06:06
by Ramzydb823 Ramzydb823
 Yes.they cant always be sexual.
 13 Feb 2008 14:56
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 Absolutely. Such a friendship can exist without the attraction or sexual element. For a time I had two close male friends. Both have since passed away, but the relationships were the best friendships I ever had. I am female.
 07 Feb 2008 05:32
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 If a clear friendship can exist between male & female siblings, then it may also exist between other boys and girls.
 07 Feb 2008 03:43
by Hibrida Hibrida
 Yeah i have a couple of boy friends and we never kissed or anything so it can happen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 31 Jan 2008 16:06
by Hatherb Hatherb
 Of course. I have some male friends, that are strictly that...just friends.
 27 Jan 2008 01:25
by Jtsma Jtsma
 Yes they can I'm 39 and has had a few guys as friends with no sex!
 26 Jan 2008 04:26
by Angelawill Angelawill
 I have a friend that is a guy. He has been my friend since I was in the second or third grade. Wow that's a long time. Although he asks me out about two or three times a year I always say no and it always goes back to being really great friends. As a girl it may seem weird but when I am bored or just need to talk I call him before I even think about calling my girl friends. I trust him more and he pulls me out of situations I don't want to be in, likewise I do the same for him. One time we were at a dance and it appeared that there were a lot of drugs being passed around so he called his mom and she picked us up and brought us to his house where we hung out for a movie night. Nothing went on between us just being goofy and hanging out. Just like normal friends would. For anyone who doubts that girls and boys can not have a normal friendly relationship we are living proof. Yes, I know there is an occasional complication but they are the same as if I was friends with a girl only he's a guy.
 13 Jan 2008 02:40
by Whosurmama Whosurmama
 Yes it is possible for two people of the opposite sex to be friends without there being anything more to it. Some of my best friends are guys and I think of them like brothers not boyfriend material; don't get me wrong they are great guy and some day they will make some lucky girl very happy, but that lucky girl isn't me by our choice.
 02 Jan 2008 04:13
by C_love C_love
 NO, Its always some chemical there which would ruin the friendship occationally.
 13 Jul 2007 12:30
by Awawa Awawa
 It cannot!Sooner or later there will be chemistry between a girl and a boy.It doesn't mean SEX it may be a kiss or something like that.Have you seen the movie Just Friends???It's about a girl and a boy who know each other from high school....After years the guy comes and tells his friend he loves her...and SAYS:I DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS BECAUSE I'LL ALWAYS ASK FOR MORE!
That's it it's impossible:S:S
 06 Feb 2008 08:25
by Rafinlea Rafinlea
 My best friend in the whole entire world is a guy! We would go nuts without each other! He talks to me about girls and i talk to him about guys and we look out for each other! Hes the best friend ever!!
 22 Jan 2008 04:34
by Musicfreak Musicfreak
 Not possible at all
 08 Nov 2008 19:07
by Rizwan32 Rizwan32
 Hmmm.. I think a girl and a boy cant be just good friends there is always a lovy dovy feeling after friendship that occurs!
 22 Oct 2008 16:37
by Zzooyyaa Zzooyyaa
 It can if they are related but other than that I would supposingly say no they cannot .
 15 Oct 2008 02:37
by I_luv_bebo I_luv_bebo
 Some days a clear friendship exist between a girl and boy. But it will never be permanent because it will very soon turns into the face of love gradually if a girl/boy do not like this expression of matter. Then their friendship spoils and there exists no relation at all. This type of consequences are more. You can see rare cases of clear friendship between a girl and boy.
 01 Aug 2007 13:07
by Rooptara Rooptara
 Friendship just cannot exist between a gal and guy. In my exp I have seen many girls talking to me saying friends as time went on, they started caring me more than my mom.. Being closer they will be concerned about your every move.. They will simply rob your privacy...
 18 Sep 2008 07:29
by Muthuks Muthuks
 I don't think this is possible. This can be possible when the boy and the girl are not close friends but if they are close, you will always find that there is something more than the friendship between the two. This is very obvious in the latest Hindi movie jaane tu ya jaane na.
 03 Aug 2008 18:37
by Seenie Seenie
 Coz i have been in this situation 2 many times...falling in love with your best friend...and it doesn't work that way...i have been heart broken so many times that now i don't even want to make friends!
 13 Jul 2008 16:53
by Sweetkrish Sweetkrish
 I've many friends!
Most of them r guys. At past i thought that they were just friends but i found that they r not! I found that they r attracted to me! And i didn't like that :(
but sometimes a clear friendship can exist..
Cuz i still have a few of them who are just friends !
 05 Jul 2008 16:43
by Charming Charming
 Most men or "boys" friends that are girls or woman will be their friends when their attracted to them even though the femmie doesnt know it.
 28 May 2008 07:07
by Skischoow Skischoow
 I have to say there absolutely no way.... I have seeing to many alterier motives way to many times. 'And the worst part is that the women always seem to be oblivious to these motives, sorry gals. They just keep looking for the good in any person no matter the outside view.
 17 May 2008 18:08
by Gaseater78 Gaseater78
 Not possible
 17 Apr 2008 14:52
by Crypt Crypt
 Not possible between boys and girls, unless they grow to be women and men.
 16 Apr 2008 12:10
by Guest Guest
 There is no way for men & women to be just friends.It may start out just friends,But as you get closer that sex thing always comes up.
 20 Mar 2008 02:46
by Woman08 Woman08
 It is possible.. I have a very close guy friend who shared my laughters, my tears, my sorrows, name it.. Definitely no SEX was or is involved and mind you, both of us are attached and deeply in love with our partners..
 27 Jan 2008 08:00
by Queen_btch Queen_btch
 A boy would NEVER just "hang out" with a girl without wanting something physical. A gay guy is the exception for obvious reasons. Girls believe this but it cannot be true. Guys and girls do not mix well as friends.
 24 Nov 2007 00:46
by Grimreaper Grimreaper
 I am against it. There is no way exist a friendship like that. There will be ALWAYS problems. Btw to start a friendship like that means one of them is in love with the other. So! Yes ! Thats not called FRIENDSHIP
 12 Sep 2007 15:30
by Nasos Nasos
 My bestfriend is a guy and we've been goodfriends since 1995! We practically grew-up together. Although, I must admit that there are a few occasional hiccups i.e. When his gf doesn't agree of our close-knit friendship and vice-versa. Both of us have been through a few relationships and so far, our friendship have been more lasting than any other relationship that we've been through. He's like a family to me and it's purely platonic between us. So ya, a clear friendship can exist between a girl and a guy, but it's not common.
 07 Aug 2007 16:07
by Azriel9 Azriel9
 Some people probably can but I think the percentage would be higher on the people that can't.
 01 Aug 2007 07:22
by 81456 81456
 If you are married I think that male/female relationship should not exist, for respect towards your spouse. I think that eventually some feeling is going to come out towards your male/female friend.
 28 Jul 2007 02:17
by J-lizeth J-lizeth
 Well I always only had friends that where guys and I liked to think that it was just that a good friendship but eventually they always ended up tryin something.So I don't think its very likely male and female will realy b jst friends with no intentions unless its a eg. A gay guy and a girl .

Not to dismiss it completely though as I'm sure it is possible to find a great male/female friendship ,its just not very common.
 16 Jul 2007 20:13
by Brazilfox Brazilfox
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