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Lovelyme
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I am quite confident because i know how my boyfriend likes me after a big fight :)
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Rebeccat
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Lovelyme
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Why is that? I think its important to find the reason and then u may know the solution. Its not healthy realitonship if you dont have enough confidence.
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Rebeccat
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I'm not confident, because he is still married to a woman that left him 10 years ago, and when the issue comes up there is always an excuse for not divorcing her
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Paula1725
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Rebeccat why are you letting him decide what YOUR future is going to be? Why do you give him your power to decide how your life will be? Was he with her when you met him? A good saying is "IF HE'LL DO IT WITH YOU HE'LL DO IT TO YOU" Think about that.
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Lovelyme
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Welcome, rebeccat and paular1725.
Rebeccat, i am sorry to hear your story, but i agree with paular1725. Its no point to be with a man who stay with you but would not divorce for you!
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Lovelyme
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Ask him to make decision now, if he still does not divorce, i think you should leave him becuase he does not deserve your love. If he loves you enough, he should try to make you happy. Now he tries to find excuse to not divorce with his wife, in my opion, he is not trully in love with you, or he has sth hiding from you!
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Nycgirl
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I am confident in my current relationship,but it is hard because it is a long-distance relationship!I live in New York,and he lives in Jamaica!We will be together in a year or two! I miss him,but am looking rorward to being together finally! I am confident that we will be together soon! I visit him every couple of months!We try to always practice open communication with each other!
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Lovelyme
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Wow, thats cool! Frequent communication is important for any relationship especially long-distance ones. I know its hard to not seeing the person u love every day, but it maybe become a good memery 10 years later. And i am sure if both of you overcome this hard time, your love will be stronger and more passionate! You will cherish every moment u being together.
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