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Lovelyme
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I trust my boyfriend 99.9999999% :)
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Jolenew
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I do trust my husband. And he trusts me. Without it you have nothing.
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Lovelyme
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yeah, jolenew, i agree. Trust is the base of any relationship, you cant love a person without trust!
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Meyer07
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My fiance and I both have non-trusting pasts b ut that all has to be put behind until you are given a reason not to trust....but yes I trust him with all my heart !!!
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Lovelyme
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Everyone has bitter experience related relationship...
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Cheeky
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I do but i dont think he trusts me?? I havnt given him reason not too. I have a very freindly personality and if i speak to a man that my partner doesnt know or met he goes bserk, even a conversation isnt allowed.is this fair?? Should i stop being me??
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Lovelyme
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Hi, cheeky, welcome to the LOVE CONSULTANCY!
I think your partner is jealousy and may lack of confidence. My boyfriend never gets jealousy even when i go out dinner with other boy. I dont like that. A little bit jealousy is sweet, but not too much.
I think you should talk to your partner, and tell him that you only love him and ask him not to worry.
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Terrie123
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I really trust my wife crystal bcos she all i got
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Lovelyme
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Hi, terrie123, welcome to this group. And sweet comments :)
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Ready4baby
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I trust him to a point i trusted him 10000% but he cheated one night and we broke up for liek a wekk and a half n just got back together so now i wonder if he is ever cheats still
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Lovelyme
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Hi, ready4baby, I am sorry to hear your story. Normally if a man cheat once, its mostly likely he will cheat again. Cheating is not something happend by accident, but by a person's personality. However, i hope this will not happen, but keep an eye on him!
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Nycgirl
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I trust my boyfriend now more than before,even though he is temporarily living in another country! We speak on the phone every,single day,so we get to share our days!He cheated on me in the past,but i know he learned his lesson!He did a 360 degree turn!I am keeping my eye open,though!
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Lovelyme
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Hi, nycgirl, glad to have some updating from you! Things seem to go well between you and your husband. My boyfriend is on a one-week business trip from today. Acutally its our first time we seprate for so long time! But what can u do? I m sure i will also talk him on the phone every single night.
I think if you have time and money, why not pay him a visit?
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Mz_927
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I trusted and loved my partner!!! I got pregnant at 17!!! He left me to take care of the baby and went to north carolina!!! I stay in florida and i am a senior in high school!! And now he's being chased for child support:)
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Compati3
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My boyfriend lives two and a half hours away by plane. The timing of this question is kind of funny because one of our mutual friends asked me the other day how we handled the distance. I told him that I have no doubt in my heart that when I'm not there, I have nothing to worry about (likewise, my sweetie knows he doesn't have to worry about me, either!). There is a great deal of love, respect and trust between the two of us. Why distrust someone when he/she has given you no reason to? And though we don't always get to see each other as often as we'd like to, we are a perfectly happy pair. :)
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Nascarnut
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Hello all! I did trust my hubby of 4 yrs. Until he lied to me and said he was going out on the boat with the boys. He returned all hot n bothered n i knew something was up. As irony would have it i needed something out of his truck the next day and found wrist bracelets for an all nude strip club and a box of condoms, missing 5. There were six guys in total that went on this endeavor. I confronted him...he said that is part of his job {partly true as he takes care of the mansion of one of these guys} and if i don't like it too bad.
Prior to all of this he told me he had dated 2 of the strippers from this club and i told him i don't like those clubs and would rather him not go, ever. So he said that is why he had to lie ot me about it, to spare my feelings. I am new to this state and know 3 people, all pals. So i jumped into my car and took off to the nearest local motel...and stayed there for 3 days when he finally found me. Here is the kicker: Now he says he cannot trust me! What is up with that? The relly bad news is i must move back to my home state of fl for 6 mos. Leaving him here w/ all his party buddies...and i do not trust him and fear what may occur in my absence. Pls share all your thoughts and/or solutions to this dilemma. Thanks in advance.
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Nascarnut
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Well...lovelyme where are you my saviour?
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Lovelyme
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HI, I am here, Nascarnut. I'm sorry that your husband lied to you.
Something might be true that he did not tell you the truth because he knew you did not like it, and on top of that, he might think its not big deal to go out with strippers as they're strippers, which might just be pure business, no emotion invlovled. Personally, I don't like that, and would not forgive my partner if he did that to me.
My question is did you cheat him? And did he not trust you just because you stayed in motels for 3 days? If you did not cheat him, and you should have a chat with him and find out why he does not trust you.
Trust is the most important thing in any relationship. Do you love him? Or does him deserve your love? Or do you get same love back from him. If yes, yes, yes, then talk with him and build trust. If no, leave him.
Good luck.
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Nascarnut
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i have never cheated in any of my 4 relationships!
love is currently lacking as one must receive it in order to give it!
as far as why he does not trust me: i asked why & he said because i left him for 3 days!
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Dandyhen
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I trust my bf with all my heart.. But there's a little bit worries in my heart only he could take it away but i just prayed that things will work out fine.. He's to far from me and miss him alot.
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Do you trust your parnter?
Do you trust your parnter? 
