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Juliamarie
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Ok, so I am technically with a guy right now, however I am leaving him, I am looking for an apartment. So we are basically over. However I have a co-worker with whom I have become very close. I have strong feelings for him and I am pretty sure he feels the same way about me. We have a very strong connection in which i can not ignore. He broke up with his girlfriend about 1.5 months ago. The only problem, she is pregnant..she thinks she is about 3 months along. I asked if he was going to go back to her. And even though she is a psychotic, over controlling druggy, he said if the baby is his he will go back to her just for the baby. As far as I know he does not have any feelings for her anymore, and wanted her out of his life until this came up. He doesn't know what to do, and it is breaking my heart because he doesn't know how i feel about him and i feel like I am going to lose him. Should i talk to him, what do i say? Or should i just leave it alone. If anyone could help it would be great.
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Lovelyme
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Wow, its not good situation for all of you. You need to clear this mess. First of all, if he does not like her at all, he should not go back to her no matter if she has his baby or not. If she has his baby, he may need to support financially or claim custody. If he goes back to her for baby, its completely wrong, a bad relatioship between parents does not do any good for the baby.
The thing between you and him is pretty much clear. If you like him and do not mind the fact that he may need to support a kid who is not yours, then tell him your feeling! Good luck.
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Corrinm81
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Iam sorry if this is not what you want to hear,but juli you are freshly trying to rid your self of dead wait and a bit concernd of your safty.definately put any other potential relation on far back burner.once in a new home try to relax and enjoy juli time with juli, after all you dont have to anserw to anyone now, enjoy that peace with you(try to any ways) just be spontainious for a change an jut do what you want to do. As far has your new male friend,easy does it girl friend, you dont need two pyscs P O'd at you.Have you seen the movie "Serendipity" you wont lose him if he were not ment to be lost.Have a lil faith in our lord above, for now there is only one person that you see when you look at your drvers licence or state I D. Take care of juli, she needs for you to be a good friend to her right now. Give Juli that big hug that she so deserves.And by the sounds of things, you should start building juli up,self asteam is way down along with confidents.Redue your hair or something, give your self a new look or what ever you want to do. Try this every time you look in the mirror.look at you in your eyes thats whats important.Say "Iam a unique person, Iam worth while and I like myslf" . Also physical training runs parallel with mental mind.Maybe a little work out plan to your self or may to a gym.Not all guys want a big stack up stairs, the good guys would rather look into your beautiful eyes. Let us know how things turn out....COM
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Danitas
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Alyssa2021
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Go talk with him thats the best way to let him know how u feel about him.
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Compati3
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I am going to second DanitaS's motion. Why subject your heart to so much drama when the right person is out there just waiting for you to come along? This guy sounds like he's got a lot of baggage (for lack of a better word). Let that belong to him so that your heart is light and free, and ready for the next great thing to happen. We all deserve that. Why settle for anything less? :)
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Dandyhen
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I met a guy on a certain website last year and we chat everday..really everyday and he even calls me after it lasted for 8 months till i met him in person this May we dated and have fun together i feel sincerety from him looking at his eyes and movements ( i hope im not blinded coz i trully fell for him) when he went home to his province, for a week he dont call me and when i see him after that week he gone thin he said that its really hard to accomodate all responsibilities with his family i saw stress and much thinking from his eyes, i can feel he's trying hard for the family.i just kept quiet coz i dnt know how to help him, id like to but how can i do that. I think all his savings are now gone coz he have to give to his family.now he's back in london.. Working as a nurse. I know he's very busy now ( i hope)he havent called me yet almost a week now.he told me he loves me and proposed to me to marry me but i have to wait, i can feel its a honest proposal. But im worried much worried about him how he is doing and i know living in london is expensive too. Im dying worried about him.. And also many worries inside me..he gave me a 8 chained heart bracelet as a proposal.. I love him dearly but i cant stop worring about him ..and US.before he left he said to me to be good and wait for him but still have worries.. I prayed alot for someone like him and i dont want to loose him.what will i do? Pls help me overcome my fears and worries.
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Well thank god 4 this topic!!! I now have been sitting on for way too long!! I was in a relationship for a little over a year & we broke up. Since that time I never knew how much I loved him. Keep in mind he left me while I was incarcerated, we both where doing things @ the time that were not to smart. So I had to deal with the consequences.He stood by me for 8 mos out of 18. Just wrote one day & said he couldn't do" THIS "anymore. So that was it....I wrote 4 sometime telling him how much I loved him & wanted things to be different. He never wrote back....I came home & called him & he told me he had a girlfriend he was moving in with & he loved her.I never called back. He called me after 5 months & wanted to go for coffee,I said yes to call me the next day.He did & at the time I was working so was gonna be late. He then called a mutual friend of ours & said to tell me that he had to work.I told our friend that it was probably for the better. Why did he call after all this time?????? I understand any of it.... The worse is that I will always love him.What do I do? If anything?
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Takkun116
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So i have this girl i like but she is my best friend what should i do
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Ok. I have a crush on this guy, he was my professor last yr (he is just 5yrs older than me). I found out a while ago that he already left our school. I don't know what else to do and I don't think our path would cross again. I really like him. I want to tell him that I like him but I am afraid of what his reactions would be. Should I still tell him? I know there's no sense in telling him now, but I just can't leave everything behind. I need your help. Please, what should I do?
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