How Do You Realize That You've Lost One's Love?

They no longer want to spend time with you. It's hard for them to even talk to you for several min. Without acting impatient. The goals you set together have changed to center around his goals only. He may very well still love you, and it may be a phase he's going through, possibly because he may feel a loss of independence. If he isn't abuse to you, and if you have the patience, see where his head goes from here. MOST OF ALL. Don't keep asking him what's wrong...what about
''us"....spend some time with me....etc. Just try to do what is interesting to yourself. Pushing him will drive him away. Show him that he can have freedom, with or without you