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I Have Kids To Different People Will I Ever Find Someone Willing To Be With Us?

I did find a great guy , we got married and had 2 girls (I have 4 kids) but for a year he's been gone, he was so nice but then got controlling and abusive. But I want to know, is there someone out there for me and my kids??

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    Yes my mom found someone after having 4 kids three by her first husband that passed away and then me and she divorced my dad. They have now been married 12 years. My sister has 3 kids all by different fathers, the first was a result of her being raped, the second she had while married, and the third she had after her divorce. My sister is now dating an old high school friend. So yes there is someone out there for you that will accept you just the way you are.
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    Ryanna 

    answered 1 year ago

      There is someone special out there for you and your kids,you just haven't met him yet,i myself had 6 kids when i met my fiance,but i wasn't looking for anything long term just wanted to enjoy life and be happy,we fell in love and now we have a child together and still enjoy life and each other sometimes when we ain't falling out
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      Suckeruk 

      answered 1 year ago

        Absolutely...!
        You've seen and been with the rest, now the BEST is yet to come.
        P.S Love is as elusive as a butterfly,do not chase it...stand still and let it come to you!
        All the best...
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        Senz 

        answered 1 year ago

        How can I let it come to me when I don't go anywhere?/ I don't have a job, (hope soon though,, there are reasons why I don't right now) and I don't get out anywhere. It's hard when I cant drive and do not have a sitter for my 4 kids...and no money!! I know it's a bunch of excuses, I just want to know where to meet someone if I don't have a social life>?
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        Nicegirl06

        Nicegirl06

        commented 1 year ago

        Of course you will Love is what makes the world go round,he will be special,I agree with the advice don't look let it come to you just be at the right place at the right time and it will happen.....good luck
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        Bgirl525 

        answered 1 year ago

        You already delt with all the bad now if you give it time good will appear soon. I know its hard waiting and waiting and wanted a companion but the true answer is time. I know it gets lonely and you look at you 4 beautiful children and you want a "father figure" in their life but you can not rush love, it comes when it wants to. Or maybe god is trying to tell you that you don't need a man in your life, you have 4 perfect children that love you no matter if you have a boyfriend or not. But when ever you feel mr.right comes along, make sure that your children agree and like him as well as you do. Your children should always come first, and if they are anything like me or my friends they will appreciate you asking their opinion on this big step in your life.
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        Kaylahp 

        answered 10 months ago

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