My Boyfriend's Attitude Is Terrible, I Hate The Way He Treats Me, How Can I Help Him Change It?
My boyfriend gets jealous from everyone and everything that comes near me its insane, I hate the fighting and the shouting and the bad treatment, he always comes after it and apologize and I forgive him cause I am foolishly in love with him, will he ever change?
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Maybe he needs to go to some counseling he sounds like he will get violent one day so if I were you I will be careful because he kinda sounds overprotective or some so be careful be safe talk to him let him no you not going anywhere so you don't have to get mad...
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Thanks for the advice, but where i come from we don't have that here, i mean conciling and all.....
You are right thou he is overprotective and all but I was wondering if there is anything I can say or do to him so to help him change....
You are right thou he is overprotective and all but I was wondering if there is anything I can say or do to him so to help him change....
It is a good thing that you see this behavior as negative. It is not advisable to further such a relationship. Going into a relationship with someone, hoping they will change is not wise. You see the controlling behavior now. The vast majority of these people do not change unless highly motivated to do so. If you continue, and you know, then when it becomes a serious problem, you need to consider, about what you will do then. It is a difficult road, that you are laying for yourself.
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The foundation for a proper attitude consists of developing the habit of thinking positive thoughts. Good luck.
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I am going through the same thing, 2 seconds a go he hung up because he "can not be bothered". Unfortunately there is no simple answer, whatever you say he will take it as you moaning and trying to change him. Either live with it or get out!
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answered 8 months ago
Oh god !! Im going through the same case......... Its so disturbing....... Like m going nuts trying to change him in all possible ways......... I cant give up on our relationship either.......i don't know what to do........... I changed myself (as in doing what he prefers) for him but then he doesn't improve his attitude....... If i try to make him understand by talking it out....... He takes it is a totally negative way........ Im seriously very upset right now......we have been in a relationship since 3 yrs..... But his negative attitude gets worsen since the last 8 months......... Im very very depressed about this whole thing....... I wish someone could help !!
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answered 8 months ago
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answered 8 months ago
Guys what can i say, i unfortunately have met 3 negative people and now thinking is it me, im bubbly love socialising and very positive thinking person, and they want to keep them to themselves all of a sudden your best friends are problems, even having dinner big issue, wot am i going to do while you are having dinner with your friend??? Or ok for u you have a friend to meet i dont, me being-me, well get some friends, but now looking at it i can see why he doesnt have friends, he doesnt relax,. Chill if company always on guard or busy cleaning the kitchen while im socialising with dinner guestsl its not right!! You should be able to relax to gether !! Or am i nutz to think this i dont think so
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answered 7 months ago
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