My Boyfriend And I Are In A Long Distance Relationship. Last Time We Saw Each Other Was In September, And He Promised Me He Would Come Visit Me During His Holidays Which Are Starting Tmr. However He Made Plans Of Wanting To Train To Be Able To?

It's hard changing someone's mind when they have it made up. Since he thinks he won't be able to do it later he'll pursue it now, but you can make him understand just talk to him tell him how you feel that he made a promise to you and is going to break it because of something that he thinks he won't accomplish if he doesn't do it now. The way it sounds is that he has more than one opportunity to do what he wants but he doesn't realize it so now you have to make him see that its either you or swimming. If he loves you he'll do it later and come see you but if he doesn't and i'm sorry to say this you need to start think about other potential partners and you need to tell him.