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How Do We Get Her To Think Of Her Future, Not Just What He Wants?

My Grand-daughter Whose' Is 17 Has A Boyfriend Who Can't Or Won't Work Due To Some Kind Of Sleeping Problem. He Is 19 Years Old And Out Of School. He Made Her Feel Guilty Because He Found Out She May Be Interest In Another Guy. She Will Graduated This Year. He's a nice guy but that doesn't pay the bills should they marry. He still lives at home with his mother and sister. She was interested in college but now I think he has changed her mind for her.

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    I hope she will come to her senses. It's tough to pry the relationship apart. The best course of action is to let your granddaughter know that she is responsible for her actions. She needs to see what her life will become if she stays with this guy, she needs to think of bettering herself. Good luck!
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    Mitch052 

    answered 11 months ago

      Just tell her how bright and brilliant she is and how she still has a great future and could get an excellent  education and end up marrying a rich doctor. Tell her not to fall for someone she like over someone she loves cause ultimately in the end that person will leave her for someone he loves ... You know, but try to like relate to someone in the family yall are close to that hasn't really made all the right decisions in their life and tell her all you want is for her to do better and for her is to follow her heart and all the rest will come in time...god has a plan for everyone

      hope that helps
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      Ccarter07 

      answered 11 months ago

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