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I Want To Feel Wanted Again By My Boyfriend Is That Bad?

We use to do everything together from walks to just simple dinners. Now he is always working out or tells me he just wants to be alone. He reassures me I am the one but I just dont feel wanted anymore and I dont know what to do. I see him maybe once a week and we barely talk we use to always be together now its when he wants. I want to feel like he actually likes being with me.

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    You need to have a chat with your boyfriend and explain to him how you feel or write down how you feel to him, there is nothing wrong in feeling wanted and loved.  There must have been something causing the sudden change with your boyfriend and you need to talk to him and find out from him if he still desires you as his girl friend.
    Be open and you both need to come to a common understanding in all things regarding your relationship
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    Sherna 

    answered 7 months ago

    Thanks. I have had this talk with him in which he stands his ground in telling me I am the only one he wants to be with. I am a few years older than him and he hasnt had a real relationship he has cheated on all his girlfriends. Thing is I am the first and only girlfried he has brought around his family. He does things for me and thinks that should be enough or like my boyfriend says when he gets mad at me he doesnt turn to other girls its only me now so being by himself helps I dont know
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    Bluejeans

    Bluejeans

    commented 7 months ago

      Sounds like hes just not that into you anymore so time to really look at where this relationship is going and if it still fits into your future dreams
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      T-wright 

      answered 7 months ago

      Gosh that seems so right. I have asked him if he wants to go seperate ways but he just says he wants us to be together and that he loves me.. Apart of me sometimes feels like I should walk away
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      Bluejeans

      Bluejeans

      commented 7 months ago

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