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How Do I Accept That He's With Her?

My ex and me havent been together for awhile. But we had been seeing eachother everyonce in awhile. He knows that i still had those feelings for him, but he's always messed with them. I have been thinking about him a lot lately. And the fact that i found out that his and his girlfriends relationship jus got real serious. They're having a baby. How do i accept the fact that i cant be with him never. He needs to be with her and i cant be that other girl.anymore.

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    It's very hard to let go of someone, but it becomes all the more important when you are out of a relationship and the other person doesn't care anymore. You have to think about ways to diverge your attention. If you are not working, start looking for a job, if you are working start looking for ways to occupy yourself in the evenings. Do social work or join some short course of your interest. Start socializing and going out more with your friends. The basic point you have to accept is that He is GONE and won't be coming back, and you must not ruin your life by thinking about him.
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    Aicha 

    answered 2 years ago

      Find ways to keep yourself busy.  Throw yourself into your work..that always helps.  Go out with the girls to a club or a movie.  Only time can heal you completely, though.  Good Luck and God Bless.
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      Melissa3 

      answered 2 years ago

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