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How Do I Stay Away From My Ex During Soccer Season?

This is actually my friends' question. The guy she once dated is a jerk and now he's playing on the guys team. So we will see him at all of the summer practices and will probably even scrimmage him. Any advice??

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    Simply ignore him, pretend that he isn't there. It will be akward, true, but in my opinion I think it's the best thing to do. If he starts bothering your friend, just tell her to say that it's over, there is nothing else to say.

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      Don;t ignore him, just be professional and friendly. She isn't forced do anything that she doesn't wanna do. Never let yourself be controlled because of somebody else is there! This can be hard not to do and must admit to you I have been in that very same akward situation. Yet, being friendly and professional will put things back on the same playing field that you are there for. Remember character is something we have to work at and doesn't easily. While all of us are still working at being better this is a way that God has placed in your path....we either it get bitter or better that decision is up to us. Well I hope this answers you question tell her to keep doing what she has been doing since the breakup and if he comes to her giving her a hard time encourage to be the bigger person without playing the victim sympathy from everybody else. There can be some jerks out there, but let them be the jerks and let's keep on being who we are.
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        See the problem is that my friend doesn't even want to be friends with him and i can honestly say that i don't blame her. He was a complete jerk and can be really obnoxious, but we can't seem to find a way to avoid him because he always finds a way to be there in her way.
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        The ex will probably ignore her.............. Don't worry about it
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