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    How Do I Take Care Of Myself? He Was Always The One To Handle Things Now He Is Gone And I Have To Take Care Of Myself. I Live In A Homeless Shelter And Could Use Advice Thanks.

    I am looking for an answer to my question because i do not know how to handle my husband's death

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    Start by seeing a grief counselor who can help you resolve the issues you face. It also sounds as if you are clinically depressed, you should also see a medical doctor or psychotherapist who can prescribe antidepressant medication for you. As soon as you have some control of yourself find some sort of work. This will benefit you in two ways, you won't have so much time to think about your loss and it will provide you some money which will help you get out of the shelter. God be with you sister, some day you will be with your husband again but until then you must take care of yourself as your husband would have.

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      Everyone comes in this world alone and he/she has to die alone. You must develop confidence in you. Utilize all your expertise and experience to get some job and work hard to achieve your goals. Do not be dependent on others.

      answered 1 year ago   

      just to let you in on some info . the reason that my husband took care of everything is because i am disabled and unable to work all i had to do was pay the bills he took care of everything else.

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      There must be some sort of government/state help you can get. If you are disabled and really can not work at all, then there has to be a program that can help you. Also, maybe try going to a local church, where there may be someone that is willing to take you in to get you back "on your feet". There are many church groups that raise money for people in your situation. You need to not be afraid to ask for help. You are in a bad situation, and you need help to get out.

      answered 1 year ago   

      1st of all I am so so sorry of the loss of your husband. I lost mine last year he was 37 yrs old. I was totally lost and had to depend on family, a wonderful licensed Christian counselor and friends.. You must turn to people you trust, because there are a lot of very cruel people who would take advantage of your grief and neediness right now God bless

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