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My Boyfriend Calls Me A Whore But Wants Me To Stay With Him, What Do I Do?

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    If he really cared he would not call you a whore or any other name calling , that is verbal abuse which eventually will turn into psychical get out now
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    Ellinator 

    answered 5 months ago

    Thanks that helps now i just need to know how to dump him.
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    Tm96

    Tm96

    commented 5 months ago

    Well are you guys living together? If not i think its easy just tell him you are done
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    Ellinator

    Ellinator

    commented 5 months ago

      Dump him. You don't deserve to be called names. Get rid of him!
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      Justyour 

      answered 5 months ago

        PLEASE get out NOW!!! That is just the tip of the iceberg,verbal abuse leads to emotional abuse which leads to physical abuse.Your playing with fire girl, DUMP THAT CHUMP...PRONTO!!!!
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        Angeltoral 

        answered 5 months ago

        You  need to leave him ASAP.  He does want you in his life but yet cannot be with you without resorting to abuse to fulfill his own deep seated needs to work out his past issues.

        It's your call. He WILL NOT change
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        Drplove 

        answered 5 months ago

        RU KIDDING ME? Sounds like you are stupid if you even think about lowering your standards for a guy- come on- give yourself some credit here! God did not create only one man! There are many guys who know how to treat a woman- be wise about your choices!!
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        Klove12345 

        answered 5 months ago

          You have two choices, 1. You make a exit, on your way out blow him a kiss.....2. You can stay and be his whore and accept the language and abuse that he is heaping upon you...the final decision is up to you, but do the right thing and respect yourself and never allow anyone to disrespect you........the best to you
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          Bgirl525 

          answered 5 months ago

          Dump the loser
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          Super_girl 

          answered 5 months ago

          Tell him that you dont like what he's calling you and that it hurts you when it does and after that he dont i suggest you end it thats not healthy
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          Softball12 

          answered 5 months ago

          Please consider not taking such blatant disrespect. Perhaps he feels if he can convince you that you are less valuable than you are, he thinks you will believe he's the best you can do. I promise you that is not the case. Seems like a form of psychological control. Set boundaries with what you will and won't accept and stick to them. The earlier you do this in life, the happier you'll be. I wish you luck in deciding what to do here, listen to your heart!
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          Ifbjudith 

          answered 5 months ago

          On what basis is he calling you a whore?  Furthermore, why would you put up with someone calling you names?   A man who loves and adores you would NEVER call you a derogatory name.
          Just remember, the verbal abuse can escalate at some point to where he may become physical.  Do you really want to wait for that day?
          If you don't believe you deserve better than this guy who has a filthy mouth, then stick with him.  If you have an ounce of respect for yourself you will remove yourself from his life.  
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          Askjuliqhp 

          answered 5 months ago

            If you like him you just say that dont ever call me that again or if you dont  like him brake up
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            Mangely97 

            answered 5 months ago

            I agree no one should be treated like that.  As for blowing a kiss or any smart ass behaviour, that is just stupid, he may loose it and become physical.  If you leave then just leave, no need to try and be hurtful on the way out, at best you'd be lowering yourself to his standards.

            I would ask as "Askjuliqhp" said why?  It is obvious there is problems in the relationship.  However most people here are assuming that he isn't acting this way because of something you are doing.  As I said that doesn't make it ok.  However there is something called cause and effect.  Lets say you are a flirt, well that would obviously be a problem for him, not all men, and that would mean it's time to find someone that doesn't get bothered by that, or make sure that there is no doubt in his head he's better than all the rest.  Continuing this way will only lead to sadness.  And leaving is likely best.  Just don't forget to ask yourself what role you may have played in things going this way.  To not ask that, invites it to happen again.  I have always asked myself what I might have done wrong in a situation with a partner.  It's the only way to keep your self honest and fair to others.  Some people think they should be able to do what ever they want, well relationships are about compromise.  Unless you are lucky enough to find the perfect person for you.

            Keep well and safe
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            Quetzodin 

            answered 5 months ago

            call him a whore and watch how that make him feel then tell him you feel the same way.
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            Pennywine 

            answered 5 months ago

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