Do You Really Want To Know That The Man You Really Love Is Cheating?

I would tell him that you know that he is cheating on you,and when he tells you why i would think if it was just cause he doesn't love me anymore then i would leave him. Cause i hate cheaters,and i hate them with a passion! If you want another man or woman i think you should break up with the 1 you have or stay with the one your with and don't go to that other 1! Hope it helps! TAKE CARE!!!!

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If you want to keep a shred of dignity, you know you don't deserve to be treated this way, and you must confront him about it.

I would suggest you find a time for both of you that is good and lay it out on the table - that you know he is cheating, that you are hurt by it, that it is not acceptable, and that it must stop. Then you will need to find out why he was cheating and ask for his agreement that he will stop. If he refuses, or if there is doubt, make preparations to leave this man.

You deserve better, and you will be fine on your own. Surround yourself with friends and family, and stay focused on caring for yourself. No one needs another person in their life to treat them like mud, just so they have roof over their heads.

Don't sell your dignity that cheaply. Stay strong, and good luck to you.

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Thanks you guys. I will prepare myself to leave him I'm a private nurse and i make real good money i can afford to leave him i got caught up in the he give me anything that that i didn't want to lose that. I know for a fact that it's not going to be easy but with a little support i think i will make it. THANK YOU VERY VERY VERY MUCH

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The outcome of a crumbling relationship is often decided not by what you did but how you did it. You are certain, and I presume you have actual facts, that the person is cheating. Not socializing, made a friend of the opposite gender, but actually emotionally and physically involved with another: Let's say that is true. What now? You are in a state of denial and are struggling with ending the relationship, because it is comfortable for you. The Love is gone from the sounds of it--my advice is to quietly make up a list of all you have to do to pull out, do as much of it as you can without them knowing, and then have that 10 minute conversation that is clear and has no way back. Then very objectively split the sheets and retreat to your good friends and family. If you need to cry your eyes out, do NOT do it in from of the other, do it in safety. You have to be the strong one. You will have done both of you a service, you both deserve another shot at love.

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