Does The Phrase "Love At First Sight" Really Exist? Should We Believe In It? How Long Should Two Persons Be Acquainted Before They Marry?

Like they say, " When you know, you just know." I think that there needs to be a good level of communication and you both should be fine. I have a girlfriend who's been with her guy for only six months and they just recently got engaged. The way I see it, you've waited this long for your "once-in-a-lifetime" to come along, why wait any longer? Forget about what people think. There are no laws on when a person's supposed to fall in love and when they should take more serious steps. Talk about things with one another and based on that conversation and your feelings towards each other make your decision! Congratulations and good luck!

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It is not really true that people have real love at first sight. When you look at someone at the first sight what you develop is actually a fascination for the other gender. It is human nature to be attracted by the opposite sex, i.e all men like good looking women and all women like good looking men. But just like some one does not mean that you love him or her.

Love is not a very simple sentiment or relation ship, one has with another human. It is not only about liking and disliking in fact it is about care, sacrifice, tolerance and delivery of a lot of importance to your partner. Now all these things are never developed at first sight without knowing the other partner well enough. For these things the two partners, of the relationship, should have enough time to spend with each other and also to think over the relation ship. If a relation ship is being made only for the temptation of bodily attraction or lust it does not last for long and hence complications occur. So in my opinion we should not have a firm believe in love at first sight.

As far as the duration before marriage is concerned for a successful marriage we should have enough time at least a period of six months is necessary in which frequent meetings should be arranged so that the both partners know each other well. They know what are the strengths,weaknesses, likes and dislikes of each other, and they should also know how to handle different situations.

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Thank you so much for responding to my Question, I do happen to be one of the "believers" and the advice given, seems reasonable. I am going to confess my deepest scariest feelings soon, because I believe if it goes with out mention, it could go on without me. I am so "in love" with this person, I believe and I am sure he knows. Now he should hear it from me. Soon! Thanks again!

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