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Is It Bad When You Dislike Your Family So Much You Don't Even Want To Look At Them?

My parents always talk in a mean kind of aggravated way 90% of the time. They say they are trying to what they have to as parents but they let everything my brother does slide, and when they dont I get punished for it. The funny thin is that they dont use drugs and dont drink. This seems like a problem to me.

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    You should try talking to your parents about what you feel. Your feelings of are legitimate. You feel like they are playing favorites and it will if it hasn't already cause you to be resentful against your brother. You really should talk to your parents.
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    Jolenew 

    answered 3 years ago

    It‘s good advice for someone who hasnt tried that but i have. They then say something like, "let us handle it we're the parents" then they never do. Or theyll say something like its our job not yours and same thing. They seem to either be completely clueless or just plain ignorant.
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    Keiicji

    Keiicji

    commented 3 years ago

      Man that's tough. I had parents like that as well. I was the middle child, where my older sister got to do things and got away with things as well because she was old and my brother got to do things and get away with things because he was a boy. I can tell you this, it will only hurt you to hate and you will be grown soon.
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      Jolenew 

      answered 3 years ago

      Yeah well it's hard to not hate when there is almost nothing good in life. Dont worry though, as much as I dislike them im not the run away or suicidal type. I just cant wait to get out. Thanks and if you have anymore info please dont hesitate to tell me.
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      Keiicji

      Keiicji

      commented 3 years ago

        Well, dear its really very sad, but its also very bad to dislike your family. i think you are very concious about their attitude and of course its natural you cant ignore them but i think that the solution to this problem is, you should not pay any attention towards it especially you should not reflect any reaction towards what they are doing, avoid any remarks, spent most of your time outside reserve yourself and answer properly to your family but when they ask something from you. because some how it happens that if you are possessive about some thing you don't get anything in return but if you avoid them neglect them for some time then finally you became successful in achieving that what you require. so try it out. Good Luck
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        Aarzoo 

        answered 3 years ago

        How old are you? Maybe you could get a job or something so your not there so much. Hate is very harsh, and most of the time when you hate, you are the only one who suffers. How old is your brother?
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        Jolenew 

        answered 3 years ago

        I'm 16 my bro is 14. I do have a job but it doesnt help. But I do feel better at work.
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        Keiicji

        Keiicji

        commented 3 years ago

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