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Would You Give Up Your 3 Kids Because Your So-called Friend Told You To?

My twin sister told my other sister about how her friend talked her into giving her kids away. Why did she even listen to that stupid girl when the girl didn't even graduate from high school? We're in our mid 20's.

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    Well, I'm 13 years old and this is my story :

    At the age of 9 my mum had split up with my dad and married my step father and had 2 kids, ( my brothers ), but then , at 10 years old, my mum divorced my step dad and left him for another man. But My mum didn't want me, but she wanted my brothers, she sees them, but she doesn't want to see me. My dad couldn't look after me cos he's in the army and didn't love me enough to give up his job to look after me, so now I live with my step dad ( well, he's not really my step dad, but I call him that to save confusion.)

    I know hate my mum. Because she gave me up, just because her boy friend told her to. I bet them kids hate her just as much as I hate my mum. She's done a bad thing and she's shown her kids that she cant be a proper mother. And she listened to a girl who hadn't even finished high school?!?! I wouldn't listen to Grandma if she told me to get ride of my kids, Id keep them no matter what! I'd never want to hurt them like my mum hurt me!
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    Toffie 

    answered 2 years ago

    i'm really really sorry for you toffie :(
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    Charming

    Charming

    commented 2 years ago

      No. I Would Not Do That. Your Kids Are Something Special In Your Life ! If You Give Your Kids Away You Wouldn't Be The Same With Out Theme .. Well To Me If Your So Called Friend Told You To Give Up  Your Kids I Wouldn't Think She Is A Good Friend. So Please If You Went To listen To Your So Called friend Please Think Again REALLY REALLY Hard And I Know From Experience !!
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      Kcrdancer 

      answered 2 years ago

        I think this is ridiculous but you never said how old the kids were or what  the situation is. But I would never give my kids away no matter what the situation. I just can't even imagine living w/o my kids! What was she thinking?!
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        Mscupid 

        answered 2 years ago

        NO NO NO. I won't give up my kids no matter what happened!
        It's your kids from your own flesh!! How would you get rid of them ??
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        Charming 

        answered 2 years ago

        Some people have little or no confidence in their own abilities. Parenting is an awesome responsibility, and I think all parent's deal with a certain amount of inadequacy, but  some have burdens  of guilt and pain so deep, that  they  have no hope.  Usually Parents  who do this THINK, they are doing what is best for the child or Children involved. They feel as though they can not provide the future, the Children, deserve. To these people, this Sacrifice is a noble attempt to provide the best, for their Children. I can only admire someone who; upon recognition of their own inability to provide, gives the Child to someone who can provide a stable loving home. The reasons a parent would do this, are as numerous as Children themselves, but I know some of them are good.
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        Pencil 

        answered 2 years ago

          no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! as a kid i wold be heartbroken if my parents gave me up!
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          Corn913 

          answered 6 months ago

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