How Do You Bring Communication Back Into A Marriage?

Normally when people don't lack anything on the outside then normally that is when the problems start because both the parties are working so hard to achieve all these things that they don't lack on the outside that they don't have time for one another anymore and that is when you get the lack in communication.  Ive experienced it myself.

What they have to do is go back to basics.  Do what they use to do before it got to this point.  Go dance together.  Go on a picnics just the two of them.  Do romantic things for one another.  Spend time together without any TV, friends nothing and nobody ells except the two of them.

Seems to me when couples think back and talk about when they first met and discuss how they felt and just talk about special times. Maybe go on a date they remembered they once went on or cook a favorite meal together.

Not that you want to hear this.......but sex is main key. I don't understand why, but to a man, if the woman gives him sex, and you get all dressed up for him and so on and so forth, most likely right after that, your communication skills will increase and then you just keep that up daily.

Coming from a woman's point of view, I think the way to get communication skills going, is to sit down and talk to him one on one, and tell him how your feeling, even though 95% of the time, he wont want to listen, he will most likely be thinking of you naked, and he will be staring right at you, pretending to listen, but trust me, its all an act.

In a guys point of view, just do the deed, basically, and everything will go back to normal.

Sorry this advice isn't what you wanted to hear. Good luck!