Me and another friend don't have boyfriends and our other two friends have boyfriends!!
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Okay well i no how you feel i am like 13 going on 14, and when i was 12 i felt so behind with relationships. But i mean that's around the age when it just starts you have plenty of time and there are plenty of guys. But just don't go on to fast, you HAVE TO BE CAREFUL I'm sure you have heard of this boring lecture thousands of time, but this girl around 12-13 got pregnant in my school just my a simple mistake.
So do be careful, make sure the guy respects you and your decisions. All in all there are is plenty of time and just flirt and have fun!! Because once you have a boyfriend the flirting days are over :)
answered 1 year ago
Just b/c your friends have boyfriends...well, first of all, how old are your friends? Are they older?younger? Anyway, twelve is kinda young. I mean don't get me wrong, you can still be friends and yeah that's still called a boyfriend, but sex, you may wanna wait until you get older. Focus on your education right now. Boys will be a distraction and if you fall in love too early or get too obsessed then that can devastate you. So focus on school right now and if there's a boy you like you can still hang out, go to the movies, but don't get too serious in the relationship. You are only 12. If your friends are doing it, then so be it. That don't mean it's right. Probably their dads don't even know about it. So you do what u think is right for you not b/c someone else is doing it.
answered 1 year ago
There are those that run with the pack and there are those that lead the pack then there are those who choose their own course. Which one are you? Sounds like you want to run with the pack. You know, everyone else is so I should too.
If I were you or you choose to listen to me, most of the time it is best to choose your own course. You will know when you find a person you like and decide to become GF/BF. Doing it because everyone else is can lead to so many difficulties. Things like kissing, touching and (excuse me if this sounds harsh) sex. Tom, you BF wants to have sex but you know your not ready. He says "well, Joe and Liz have done it several times". So, do you go with the flow and against your will and have sex or do you take your own path and tell Tom that your not ready and that you don't want to have sex. The choice lay in your own hands!
answered 1 year ago
You said two of your friends have boyfriends but many people also have boyfriends. But those people are not 12 years old i am sure. If you think that way, you could get a lot of boys. But in my opinion, your age is a little less than required.
answered 1 year ago
I'm sure you've heard people freaking out over the boyfriend question, it's nice to know people care. It is in our nature to be wanted, and adored. People freak-out because of the dangers of "desire". Point is in every relationship you have, (friends, moms, dads, boyfriends) you should have agape love- It takes time to build trust.
answered 1 year ago
No dear. You don't have to follow what others your age are doing if you don't like it. You have other priorities to attend to than having boyfriends or going out on dates.
answered 1 year ago
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Thank you. This explains so so so much. And since you' re closer to my age than the other two I know that you understand my feelings.
comment made by Cms6 1 year ago
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