How Will I Move On In My 3 Years Relationship Since My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Last Night?

While it is sad that a three-year relationship had to come to an end, it is certainly not the end of the world. We feel a sense of bewilderment and helplessness when such things happen, but that is only because we get lulled into a false sense of comfort and security. The same applies when you want to move out of a job you have been doing for the past, say, four years. You are scared and insecure about what will happen next. However, as we have heard umpteen times till now, life goes on. It has to, simply because at the end of it all, nothing can have a deadening impact on our lives unless we want it to. If the other person has the ability to say that he does not need you in his life any more in that special position that you occupied, too bad. But why would you want to cling to someone who, at this moment, thinks that you are unimportant in his life?

Also, if you look at the time-span in a relative sense, it is ONLY three years, compared to the rest of your life. You have an eternity ahead of you to find true happiness. The pursuit of happiness is what our lives are all about. And if one chapter closes, surely another must open. You do not have to run around looking for another to find comfort in. May be you would find comfort in yourself, and also the strength to look at these things objectively. A lot of times we make an error in judgement and end up with the wrong person. Look at the bright side. You have been given another opportunity at true happiness, and I think you should make the most of it. Feeling sad is only natural, but do not let it be the statement of your life. Move on, and I am sure there are a lot of happy times to come.

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You will be hurt of course, and you will feel bad most days for awhile, but you will get through this. I was with someone for 10 years, and it was very devastating for me when it ended. I lost weight, and walked a lot to pass the time. But most of all talk to your friends, they will be a big help, at least mine were. As time goes by, some how we seem to just get through it. You will never forget him, but you will love again.

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