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    I Am Thinking Of Ending My Life Because Of Depression And Family Problems And Because I Am Gay. I Don't Care What Anyone Else Says. Do You Think I Should Do It?(have Urge To) PLEASE ANSWER.

    Just last year I had this I think it was size 30 something blue pants that I could fit and wear, now weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks later I can't fit those dumb pants any more because I have gained lots of weight,I hate that I am a large elephant,and I want a significant other, but I am too scared of what my parents and dad might say,I have been through all kinds of hell in my life, I just want to die so everything can get better,haven't told anyone(andiamnotplanningon)?

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    KnutRbuttR

    Whatever you are going through, suicide is not the answer. You need to talk to a professional as soon as possible. I am a mother of 3 and I have unconditional love for them, no matter what they do, who they love, what their sexual preference would be, I'd love them no matter what. I too, have gained weight and hate it, I was anorexic at 17, 25, & 32. I try to stay on my diet, even tho it's hard and yes, I don't like mirrors or scales but I know I will lose the weight in a healthy way so I won't regain it back. Don't under estimate your family. They love you for who and what you are. Please, get some professional help. Good luck and remember you have all us blurters to talk to.

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      Tomcat1229

      NO!!! You have an inner strength that you don't even know about. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. You can also remain respectful and be the bigger person. You can't be anyone but who you are. There's a higher power out there utilize it. Be strong!

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      you sound so optimistic but what like me, i am tired, family drama,unfulfilled wishes, broken hopes that seem" (since i know for God all things are possible) impossible. the chronicfatigue and miserable marriage alone is turning me into someone I don't like or recognize, she is scary and powerless, defeated and getting so tired she wants to quit, any suggestions?

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      josh-deng

      Oh, my friend. I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe I can' t completely understand you that you are gay. However , it is your choice and your temperament trend. Only if you are not endangering other people is it wholly your business and can nobody interfere. Why are you being so depressed? Besides, you have also said you don't care what anyone else says. So why not be valiant? Everyone has his own problem and when you are confronting them, only if you are fearless and possess fighting spirit can you see the sunshine! My friend , be brave and happy!

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      do not do anything to harm yourself。 remember death is permanent thing to a temporary problem and it is not worth hurting yourself over no matter what the problem is.Think of the outside of the circle you have many people tht care for you and think how sad they would be.God is with you and that is a lot of power and he will protect you with any problems you have.Be safe.

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