I'm Being Bullied At School By My Ex-best Friends. They Keep Turning All My Friends Against Me And Calling Me Names. They Both Said Sorry As A Joke And Now They Are Acting Really Mean. What Should I Do? I'm Really Depressed.

This is a horrible situation for you and made worse by the fact that these bullies were once supposed to be your friends.
You need to talk to your teachers and your parents straight away. There's no excuse for what they are doing and they need to be stopped. Tell your parents, perhaps they'll go and talk to someone at school with you.
Do you have any adult at school who you particularly trust and can talk to ? Even if you don't please go to one of your teachers or a student counsellor right away and tell them everything. You must tell them how depressed this is making you and they must act for you.
If it all gets too much despite parents and school becoming involves is there another school that you could think of applying to to get away from these people altoghther.
Please do tell someone this weekend and school on Monday or after the Easter break. Let us know how you get on.

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This is a very mean and cruel thing that they do to you, they are in fact worse than bullies, to befriend someone and then to turn on them is such a terrible thing to do. You don't deserve this treatment and although this is a tough time, you must show some exemplary inner strength and hold your head high with personal strength and pride and do not less these bullies win.

Find someone else to hang out with, forget your previous friends, be quite careful about where and when you hang out so that you can avoid them, change your route home, change the way you get to places and spend time if you can with bigger people!

Don't be depressed, this is all their problem, they are unbelievable cowards. It is worth telling both your parents and the school of the situation, but saying that you don't want a fuss as long as they keep their distance. You will be able to make friends or other arrangements UNTIL you make new friends. If you are concerned about your physical ability to stand up for your self, I always suggest some extra exercise, it also clears the mind, show them who is the best, by strengthening your body. Although their name calling and rudeness is tantamount to psychological torture, you are the bigger person.

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You must tell your parents and teachers what is happening. Bullying is never OK.
These are not friends and they need to be brought to the attention of the authorities at school.
Bullying is serious and must be stopped. Get help straight away.

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This is really a sad situation to be in. I would say that true friends don't do this to you. You must tell the school and your parents and see what can be done. You can't continue like this. Maybe also since supposedly they are your friends ask why they are doing this to you.

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Yes, i know how it feels, just be strong and tell someone you trust the most. Ignore them and don't let them get to you though its hard i know i've been there and it feels like nothing can help you, but trust me if u just tell a teacher you trust at school that will help a lot.

Remember if they say anything to you don't insult back, because when u tell a teacher what they did they will use what u sed against you so if u don't say anything and ignore them move on then your record is clean and you have been bullied by people who are cowards and have nothing better to do...

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