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How Do You Get An Old Friend To Like You Again?

My friend lives far away from me and we do see each ohter sometimes but we talk mostly online by aim or email..but when we do we never seem to be talking about anything really....i dont think she likes me anymore! i dont know anything else that could be wrong! i dont kno if she thinks im weird....or whatever PLEASE HELP!

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    You cannot really make anybody like you, the only thing that you can do is be nice to people. So if you have only just seen your old friend again and they do not seem to like you, really you should not try to make them.

    Being yourself is the only way you will truly make good friends. So whenever you see your old friend, just be yourself. Be polite and perhaps ask them if they want to go out anywhere.The most important thing is that you do not act desperate. Sometimes people grow up and grow apart from each other. That is completely natural. However, if you and your friend have only recently fallen out then the best thing to do would be to just start talking to them. Perhaps tell them you miss them and see if they feel the same.

    It could be that you have to accept that you and your friend are different now.It is impossible to force somebody to like you and you should not try to change in order to make them like you either. Find friends who like you for who you are, not who you pretend to be.
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    Aimeelou1984 

    answered 3 years ago

    Ok thans i will try that
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    1blanket

    1blanket

    commented 1 month ago

      Do stuff that made you friends in the first place. Do stuff that both of you loved to do before. Talk about stuff that you usually talk about before. Don't be afraid to bring up the past because it's good to go to a trip down memory lane.
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      Deniseonly 

      answered 3 years ago

      I've taken a trip down memory lane, but she told on me! So, now, what to do, what to do! I've talked to her so many times and asked her to be my friend again, but she gives me the big N.O!
      HELP ME, HELP US, HELP EVERYONE! Everyone liked me as a friend when i was her friend, but now they hate me, 'cause i'm not, she is as popular as Miley Cyrus, at school, but i'm as popular as a rat's butt!
      So, again, HELP ME, HELP US, HELP EVERYONE!
      From Anonymous
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      Tigerrox10

      Tigerrox10

      commented 1 week ago

        Be friendly towards the person and hope they are friendly back to you
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        Islanders 

        answered 2 years ago

        Move to another city, state, country. Anywhere where you can meet some good friends. Why do you feel that this persons "love" is so important to you with 6 billion others in the world that would love to be your friend... Why?
        Because you seem like a caring person.
        MOVE ON!
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        Shogun 

        answered 2 years ago

        Ok... But what if this friend is saying things like "I'm doing playing the 'you like me' game.. It's getting old.. Cya later." it's really starting to make me upset! HELP ME!
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        Ahhhh101

        Ahhhh101

        commented 1 year ago

        Don't play their game, play you own game. Move the game to another location. MOVE! The world is full of potential friends... And some fools. Your choice. Are you afraid of the experience of new friends, scenery, people and customs.... FEAR false evidence appearing real. There's only one reality... You live and you die. When or where you die is a surprise in itself. When you were born you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. SO... At least leave this world smiling and everyone else crying. Smile on... Create a new life, future... You are in essence a Creator of your world. Change it!
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        Shogun

        Shogun

        commented 1 year ago

        I recently found a lot of my old friends from primary school on Facebook that i hadn't seen in about 5 years. I didn't really know what to say to them, they had all changed so much. Any ideas about how to start a conversation with someone you haven't seen in a long time?
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        Guest

        Guest 

        answered 6 months ago

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