How Much Is Too Much To Talk To An Ex Girlfriend?
My boyfriend's ex is a good friend of his, I don't tell him he can't be friends with her but I ask that he back off. He lied to me the other day about going out with her to a movie and it broke my heart. He claims that in one month he has talked to her 5 times. I don't believe him. She calls him every day sometimes 3 or 4 times, sure he doesn't talk to her every time but how much is too much. It makes me uncomfortable and he knows.
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Too much. You should sit him down and have a serious talk about it. IF it's making you uncomfortable he should back off. He needs to understand that talking to another girl a lot would make you feel awkward plus the fact that they have a past. IF i were you i would even tell him to stop being so close to her. Its not fair.
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He has disrespected you and your trust for him by lying about going to the movies. You should sit down with him and express how you feel. There was no need to lie to you unless something more is going on in the relationship between him and her. You should tell him that it is time for you to take a step back from the relationship because he has violated your trust to the point that you cannot believe anything he tells you. This is the truth. When we become adults it is time to make rational adult decisions. Games are for children. You should not allow anyone to toy with your emotions and lie to you. He has made you feel like there is more if there was not he would have told you about the movies. This is a huge trust factor. He needs to decide what is best for your relationship because at this point lieing to you will not due and you will not tolerate it. Put your foot down and set standards a man will do only what you allow. Have self respect and dignity.
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That's awful! You don't need to take that crap!
I would recommend one of two things.
You can either get out of that relationship and tell him why you're leaving
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You can forgive him, explain why you're hurt, and draw lines. If he doesn't want to do that, then he has not let go of his ex. It's not fair for you to be with someone who isn't over their ex.
I would recommend one of two things.
You can either get out of that relationship and tell him why you're leaving
OR...
You can forgive him, explain why you're hurt, and draw lines. If he doesn't want to do that, then he has not let go of his ex. It's not fair for you to be with someone who isn't over their ex.
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