How Can I Have Sex When I Am To Embarrassed?

Maybe you aren't ready to have sex yet after all. But anyway, a tip would be to get really comfortable around the person you choose to have sex with. Being close friends or being in love can help take the edge off. Also, remind yourself that your getting involved in sex for your pleasure, and the person wants pleasure too. So just think about that instead of what you're actually doing.

When I first became sexually active, I was very embarrassed about my body, and my inexperience. The only thing that made me able to go forward was when I became very comfortable with the guy I planned to be sexually active with. Only then did I feel okay with it. I was very inlove with the first guy I had sex with. He made me feel good about myself and made me less nervous about not knowing what I was doing. If you can't seem to get comfortable enough with this guy to actually do it, maybe you should wait. Don't let someone pressure you into it. The second person I had sex with I was not in love with. I felt dirty, cheap and used afterwards. He was my boyfriend of a month or so. After, that was all he wanted from me. To this day I still feel grossed out about that. I wish I had never done it. I wished I had waited to be with a guy that I truly loved and that truly respected me and my feelings.

Are you embarrassed about your body? I have always been nervous about my body. But, when you are with a guy that cares for you, and you both want to have sex, it doesn't matter if you are perfect or not. He isn't thinking about whether or not you have a little gut. He already wants to be with you, he isn't going to push you away because of the way you look. You are the only one that notices your imperfections.

If you just cant get over it, then it may be the wrong guy. But, in time, I think you will become more comfortable about yourself and not be so shy. I hope this helps!

Maybe you aren't ready to have sex yet, but you shouldnt be embarrassed with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I would just take things slow until you feel perfectly find with your body. Be sure to make sure that your partner understands :)