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I Don't Think I Love My Boyfriend, And I Feel So Alone, What Should I Do ?

My boyfriend goes on about how much he loves me, but I don't think I love him.. I just can't say

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    I know the feeling all you can do is be true to yourself. Find out what makes you happy and do it!
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    Heatherhen 

    answered 1 year ago

      The best thing you can do is step back.  Take a break from phoning or seeing him, even if it is over the weekend.  Talk to a trusted friend, parent or someone you trust.  I suspect you are a teenager?  If you are, most likely you will meet many others before you find the RIGHT ONE so don't be afraid to "test" your love.  And remember, love is more than words.  If he really loves you, he will understand your need to have a break from one another.  Take care of yourself.
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      Lanadee 

      answered 1 year ago

      Great comment!
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      Heatherhen

      commented 1 year ago

        If you don't think you love him, you probably don't. Don't string him along and cause more pain for you or him. Let him down easy. Care enough about him to be honest with him. You owe him that.
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        Queenbee24 

        answered 1 year ago

        Take some time apart, see if you truly miss him. See if you truly miss the closeness, friendship, and trust.
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        Hisdimple 

        answered 1 year ago

        Break up. You break up real good.
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        Benquat 

        answered 1 year ago

          Be honest with him. Tell him the truth. He deserves the truth from you
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          Kid2081 

          answered 11 months ago

          I am in the exact same situation. I am so unsure about my feelings for my boyfriend. But we have decided to have a months break. Im frightened of the outcome but i know its what i have to do.

          Take some time away from each other to find out what you really want. Dont stay in a loveless relationship it will just make you both unhappy in the end.
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          Guest 

          answered 10 months ago

          Yea its not fair on the guy. You either love him or you don't, and your feelings are probably those of friendship
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          answered 8 months ago

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