I Need To Forget My Ex. How Can I Get Over Him ?

Well it's not going to be easy because you seem to have had a long time
relationship with him.You can choose one thing.I know its not easy but
just do it.Find a friend to talk to always.The only thing to put behind
your past is to avoid loneliness.Loneliness will do harm.So press on
because I know some day still someone will come your way. Don't engage
yourself calling the guy all the time or even receiving his calls.It
still takes you back to that moment when you were two before. Don't even
go on mentioning this on your lips.Find a company to be with

It's all about time, just soldier though it.
May be difficult at first but that's what friends are for, defiantly do not go and get into a rebound relationship, they are always a bad idea.

I think the best thing you can do is cut him out of your life as much as you can, if he broke it off then he don't deserve you.

I too was going with a guy for several years he broke it off with me i followed him every where rang him also i was so in love with him. Do not allow him to use you  go out and get on with your life that is what i did  now i am happily married and have a large family. A few years ago he came to see me told me he did not realize what he had until he had lost it. He is the loser not you go out and enjoy your life.  2489

Think of it as he broke it off with you being lame excuses and it wasn't the first time. You need to find reasons to get irritated by him and let that motivate you. Don't take calls don't talk to him. It's going to be very hard for awhile find a friend spend time doing things that you like and he didn't.  

Hey i think you should involve yourself in some kind of work, why don't you take a job, and if you are already doing a job then concentrate on it, coz now if you force yourself to have another date, you wont be satisfied coz your brain is only connecting you to the incident that happened to you and so you are ready to accept the fact as the one you loved from your heart is far from you now and looking for someone else when you are present already for him, its quite tough to forget a person whom you love a lot, firstly accept the fact and then try to involve yourself in some kind of work or the best take a job, and hang out with friends and do one thing share your feeling with your close friends cuz you will feel relief, and relaxed, and don't speak to him anymore try to avoid him the way he does to you, just try to show him that you are happy without him, and you are moving on, just be chilled n by the side look for some date that will make you feel happy, and this time don't let anyone to low you down,, be smart.

My advice would be just to get out there and enjoy life! Yes, it is going to take some time to fully get over your ex. But if you just get out there and do what you enjoy doing, you will have something else to focus your mind on. Joining clubs, sports teams, or volunteering are great ways to get out in the community. You will meet new people, many of whom may become lifelong friends or more. Plus, active happy people are fun to be around. Your good mood will be contagious, and that will make more people want to be around you. Maybe even another potential boyfriend.

Hope this helps!

My advice is to get on with your life. I had to do the same thing. My boyfriend of one year just broke it off with me. He was divorced a year ago January by a woman that ran off with his best friend. She was secretly meeting him at their home. He was devastated. He dated one other girl before dating me after the divorce. He promised me the world. He said I was the love of his life and we'd always be together. I did like you and bent over backwards for this guy. I cooked, cleaned, fed his animals (horses, dogs, cats, etc.), did everything so he wouldn't have to. Boy, do I regret that! Anyway, a couple weeks ago, he just out of the blue told me he couldn't do this anymore. I thought, do what? But I'm still heartbroken. I do love him, I can't just turn off feelings like that. I moved out and the day after, his ex moved back in. Devastated is an understatement. I have good friends and family and they've helped me through it. Trouble is, I work with him. But you have to go on and put yourself first. I've lost weight, I'm going back to school and my boss is moving me to a different shift, which will help. Do something for you for a change. It helps to keep your mind on something else.

You say you don't want to date anyone else. That is part of the problem. You have this one person, fixated in your mind and I am sure he must be some kind of a real good man, for you to be so hooked on him. However, if you never give anyone else a decent chance, how will you know if there is possibly someone better. Sitting around waiting on him, gives him all the freedom here and leaves you a little cagey doesn't it? Why not make a list of all the good points you think this guy has, and then at least you know what you are looking for. Then begin to meet other friends and compare lists on other guys. You may find that there are more loveable guys out there who would fall at your feet, if you even looked their way!