If You Had A Boyfriend That Made You Really Sad Most Of The Time And Breaks Your Heart Every Once In A While But Still You Love Him SO Much, Should You Leave Him Or Keep On Trying?

I'm afraid if someone is making you sad most of the time, then you should let them go. Having a boyfriend is meant to make you happy, You are meant to enjoy your time together, when things get you down you work through it together, and if you are sad then the other person will want to make you happy.

I know it's very very hard to let go of someone you love, but in the long run if he keeps breaking your heart, he'll wear you down until there is nothing left of you. Be assertive, do the right thing for yourself and say that's enough. Move on. Take some time alone and remember what it feels like just to be happy.

When you are ready, you will meet someone who will change your life so dramatically you will never even think about leaving him. You don't deserve to be unhappy. It'll be better for both of you.

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He is useless. No, he will never, NEVER change. You don't love him; you love playing the martyr. I'd advise you to run!!

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When someone is in love, one should usually forgive, but there is a limit to the hurt that you receive. You have the right to maintain your dignity. It is better to leave the guy who is giving you heart-breaks than suffer every time. Make the beautiful life go on. We still have a lot to look forward for better life

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I have seen lots of people in a similar relationship and trust me it never changes. If he is so used to hurting you, he won't change. He'll keep doing it and you'll keep getting hurt. There's no need to try to make something work out when you know you are going to be miserable in it. Move on. It sounds like an abusive relationship to me. Following are the signs that show you are in an abusive relationship,
Your Partner
• Hurts you physically
• Controls your life, the way your dress up, your choice of friends, your opinions
• Humiliates you, puts you down but tells you that he loves you
• Threatens to harm you if you leave the relationship
• Twists the truth to make you feel you are to blame for everything. Even if it's his fault, he makes you feel its your fault.
• Demands to know where you are at all times
• Constantly becomes jealous or angry when you want to spend time with your friends

If any of the above is true for your relationship, I would say don't seek the power to keep on loving him, instead look for strength to get out of the relationship.

Wish you all the best.

Let him go and know you are better off without him than with him.

I hope you find a guy who truly cares for you and respects you.

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Definitely break up with him because if you are having so much trouble with just one guy then that could be all over in a few minutes. Think about it: having no more broken hearts and having no more sad days with him. Instead you could be out with another one who makes you feel happy and doesn't make you have a sad day every once and awhile. There are more people in the world who you will like just like you liked him, who actually treat you better than him.

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Try to talk to him and let him know how you feel. If he cares about you, then he will definitely open up and respond. Well he must care about you, because he is still with you.... Take care...

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