Life is unfair in a sense. But it is up to us what we are doing to take full advantage of those fair things that we have in our life. It is better to be an optimistic person. Otherwise life would be tough. You should see the brightest side of the picture. Life is another name of happiness. It is up to us how we are going to enjoy this happiness. Some people think that life is another name of miseries and troubles but I believe that it is purely up to us how we take it. One thing is sure that if we will take it as it is coming to us then we will surely enjoy it to its fullest.
At times, we lose something then we surely think over it for long hours. It is human nature that he does not think over those things that he has but thinks about those things that he has lost or failed to get. So if you do this, don't; otherwise you are just spoiling the charm of your everyday life. Life is short and you have to extract more and more from it. Good luck!
At times it certainly seems that life is unfair. When things don't turn out the way we hope they would or when we don't get what we want, it's common for us to say that life is unfair.
Many things happen as a random occurrence of events, and sometimes we orchestrate events so they will lead to a desired result. When the desired results aren't what we expect, we are disappointed and feel that it's unfair, but life isn't a thinking, feeling entity. It doesn't determine what happens to us. It's the same as the idea of good and bad luck. We determine whether we have good or bad luck, and we control the fairness or unfairness of our lives. Life is full of disappointments. We just have to pick ourselves up and move on. If we learn from those disappointments, we can use that knowledge to change or direct our responses in the future, and maybe life won't appear to be so unfair.