Should I Continue My Relationship With My Partner If I Feel He Is Cheating And Lying About It? Because I Can't Understand Why He Would Lie; If He Wants Someone Else, Why Doesn;t He Just Say So.

Seems like a perfect example of a wolf in sheeps clothing! If this guy can easily pursue a new relationship in so little time he's definitely not worth yours. I wouldn't take anymore chances with this liar, if he wants to disappear without explanations then he should be single and you should be free to find someone considerate and respectful of your feelings.

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I tend to agree with CelticGrl, and don't believe there is any reason for you to waste any more time on this relationship, which to me currently doesn't sound like much of a relationship anyway! Any human being deserves to be treated with honesty and respect and from what you describe, doesn't really exist in your situation. Even if you are able to reconcile, the fact that he is not willing or able to discuss with you his actions, feelings etc., I see as a huge problem. In my humble opinion, communication is the MOST important aspect of a relationship! Communication or lack of it, can make or break a relationship. In life you'll come across many situations that will require good communication skills from you and your partner and just try to imagine what it'll be like if you don't have someone to talk to, or who will not share their true feelings and opinions, someone whom you cannot trust to be sincere, tell you the whole truth or for you not even be able to get in touch with in case of an emergency?!! I think you deserve a much better man in your life!! Even if that someone is not perfect or everything you've dreamed of, look for quality of character, honesty (both with self and others), dependability, commitment (in general as well as to relationships with others), and willingness to work out problems when they arise instead of running away, hiding and hoping they'll somehow miraculously disappear.

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Usually I wouldn't advise you to do anything before you know for sure, but the signs in your case seem pretty obvious. You're not the only woman in his life. He might love you, but probably not enough if he's going to run around with someone else. It will be hard, but your relationship isn't healthy; so just do yourself a favor and let him go.

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