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How Do I Get A Girlfriend?

I'm 14 never had a gf my whole life i live in a town with he shallowest girls you ever meet and i have a class in my 8th grade class of almost 30 and a town of about 2500 ppl not much of a selection. I need help and none of this be yourself stuff everyone knows that doesn't work!!!! Someone plz help me desperate

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    It is not fun to grow up in a small town where there is not a hug selection to choose from.  You are not very old.  You have the whole rest of your life to have a girlfriend.  I know you might not want to hear that but if you are "trying" to get one girls will notice and they will not be interested in you.  Instead of trying to get a girlfriend try becoming friends with a few girls first.  Then maybe you can make something more out of the relationship if it goes well.  And if the first girl you become friends with does not want to date you, well maybe she will have a few friends that she can set you up with.  Be patient.  Don't push it or it will never happen.  Keep in mind that there are a lot of guys out there who go to college who have never had a girlfriend so at 14 you are not doing bad at all.
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    Kinnonlea 

    answered 2 years ago

      You can't "get" a girlfriend... No offence you cant buy one from the corner store.  It's something that's going to happen when you least expect it. Maybe now is not your time.don't worry about it so much.
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      Christinej 

      answered 2 years ago

        OK well I'm a 15 yr old female and the way a guy attracts me is by him trying to get to know me and becoming friends first rather than just wanting me as his girlfriend right away. I know the problem is "how to start talking to a girl u like". Well to be honest, find a friend that's not bashful at all and have him/her talk to the person you like...when you go to eat lunch or something tell your friend to invite them to eat with all you. Try to sit as close as possible with her and get into the conversation, continue doing that and if she diggs u...go for it and ask her out!! But remember take your time, don't rush into anything! Hope this helps
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        Lusciousd9 

        answered 2 years ago

        Grow a sack fill it with some balls and don't be a little pussy
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        Nick1991 

        answered 2 years ago

        show some respect.
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        Kinnonlea

        commented 2 years ago

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