I just need some help. I don't want to lose the love of my life
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You should talk to her, tell her how you feel, and see how she reacts. Ask her why she's spending so much time with her ex- it could be because he is a good listener (in which case, LISTEN TO HER!!! :D ). Getting defensive or angry doesn't help in this situation. Don't pull a guilt trip, but let her know that it hurts you to see her spending time with her ex. Be understanding- she was just diagnosed with something serious and she may be overwhelmed right now. Listen and offer your support. Hope everything works out!
answered 1 year ago
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Okay just cause you spend time with your ex. Doesn't always mean something bad i should know cuz i do. My best friend had never had a boyfriend and my ex./best guy friend has kept in touch with me since we broke up and he told me that he had broke up with his girl well i gave him some time and then started telling him about my friend and i was also telling her about him. From what they had heard they wanted to meet each other so we all hung out at my house and i was watching a movie and just letting them talk. Well she told him that we were going out to with and bowling and asked if he wanted to come. Well after that night had ended she came to my house the next day and he did to the funny thing is they both came over to tell me how the night went and i told them each what the other said next thing i knew they were going out. This story might seem useless to your question but it is proving that you can be friends with your ex. And not have to be guilty of anything
answered 1 year ago
I think that you should get that resolved real quick, for the best.
Save some time and minimize the pain you will most probably suffer later.
GET ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND AND LEAVE THE POTENTIAL (most probably sure) PROBLEMS BEHIND.
answered 1 year ago
I think you should be discussing this issue with a friend rather than putting up the question to a bunch of random people you know nothing about. Mental illness isn't something to be taken lightly and most likely you are just going to get a bunch of answers which portray the mentally ill as the predators and everyone else as the victims. Yes, it probably sucks that she has bipolar disorder. She didn't ask to be that way though.
If you are jealous, just let her know this. There could be a million reasons why she is still talking to her ex. Did you ever think that they could be friends? Everyone always assumes the worst. Yes, if she starts sneaking out of the house at 2am and runs around with this guy, it may be a problem. If she's being open and honest, maybe he's just a good friend to her. I think you may be jealous because you want to be the friend...but you are biased to the situation, so honestly you can't give her an objective view of the situation (which she probably needs!).
Be honest with her. If she really is just friends with him, I know it can be shitty feeling, but there is nothing wrong with that. Some people can stay friends after a breakup..and others cannot. Your girlfriend probably needs support from anywhere she can get it from right now. Trust me, if you two are really in love, she'll come to you when the time is right. You probably provide much more support for her than you will ever realize.
answered 1 year ago
I will... right after you.
Basically, it means trouble. Why does he have to stay with her if she is not normal and he can find a normal one.
You may keep your fingers straight and avoid your aggressive writing or you will get the same kind of messages towards you.
You go first to hurt yourself. Let me know.
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