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First thing, you didn't mention how old you are, but I am assuming you are younger than 20. I want to say you are very wise in wanting to wait till you are ready; very wise. There is no reason your boyfriend should be talking to you about sex so explicitly. It tells me that this is his ultimate goal with you. I hope I am wrong in this, but he is making it a big deal in your relationship.
I want you to know... there is without doubt NOTHING wrong with you... You are very normal. Sex is a very personal thing, and no matter what, what you like will be a trial and error kind of thing with someone who is very patient and kind... this guy doesn't seem to be either.
Lastly I want to thank you for asking that question... you are brave enough to take responsibility for yourself. You surely are an inspiration to others.
answered 2 years ago
Well, of course, there is nothing wrong with you. Don't pressurise yourself into having sex with him unless you are sure that you love him. I too made a mistake by succumbing to his pressure on sex, and I felt that my conscience was not agreeing with me. I like him but still I would advise you to have sex, only when you are completely ready.
answered 2 years ago
Nobody should pressure you into having sex. You'll know when the time is right for yourself. Stick to your guns and wait until you are ready.
Considering this is a long distance relationship, have you thought about the ramifications of having sex,what if you get pregnant,would he be there for you? Moveback and help you out, marry you?
After you say yes, would he be satisfied and not call you again? Don't give yourself away to somebody who isn't where you are geographically. If you really like this person just keep it going the way it is, friends.
answered 2 years ago
Thank you for your advice also, and you are right. I should not tie myself to someone so far away but that will change very soon: he is willing to move down here for me.
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Thank you for your advice; we talked about it and he finally understands that sex is something i am not ready for in anyway. He really does love me and the reason he says he asked me what I want is he feels like he has to give me the world to make me happy both emotionally and sexually. I had to explain that the love he gives me everyday we are together is enough for right now.
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