Why Am I So Obsessed With A Man That Has No Interest In Me?

That is not unusual a lot of women tend to have a crush which can a lot of the times turn into an obsession.  The guy may actually have an interest in you but is very great at hiding it. He may actually be trying not to show it, because he feels the same way as you and is scared to show it. I have been obsessed with a guy who actually has just found out that I exist after five years.  We actually talk a lot now. He said he had actually known I was there all along but was afraid to say anything to me because he was afraid that I would make fun of him or turn him down.  I am moving now to the town were he lives real soon.  You could try telling him how you feel.  Hell if he says he isn't interested in you at least you have given it a try and told him how you feel.

It's the old adage ..You always want what you can't have..forget him and move on!

I have the same problem. I dated a guy on and off since I was 16 and I am now 42. I never stop thinking of him and we do get together every once in a while then I don't know what happens but he dumps me. I think of him every day and I pray for this feeling to leave me. I know that he is all wrong for me. He has no stable life, no place to live, he drinks too much but I still can't stop. Within the last 6 months we met a few times and talked on the phone then all of a sudden he stopped answering. He may have found a girlfriend but we have know each other so long it looks like he could tell me. I left a message on his phone and told him I was tired of feeling like a fool and that if he was mad or found someone he should have the respect after all these years to tell me. I told him that this was the last time I would ever call him and I felt like he wanted me when there was nothing better around. My heart really hurts and I feel sick inside. How do I let him go!

Do what i have been doing if you love something set it free if it was meant to be it shall come back to thee.