How Can I Know If Having A Relationship With My Friend Is A Good Idea? I Love Him And He Loves Me..........

Seems to me that your already doing what should be done as a first step - contemplating it!

Be aware that to take things a step further you are risking your friendship with this person.

What you really need to know is are both of you committed to trying to form this relationship?

If you both are and have weighed up your options GO FOR IT!

If NOT - Leave things as they are!

Hope this helps.

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There are several cases where friends have grown up and matured together, and have loved each other for a very long time, with absolutely no romantic feelings for each other. When they reach a certain stage in their relationship, however, they start to feel that they cannot live without each other, and it is at this stage that the relationship blossoms and changes from mere 'friendship' to 'love'.
Has this happened between you both?

In some other cases, friendship remains merely that, friendship. It does not change, and as life goes on, the two people remain uninvolved, except for meetings now and then.

Do you feel romantically inclined towards your friend? Have you asked him what he thinks about it? Do you think he would agree to the change in your friendship? If you are sure of all your answers, then you can very definitely approach him, present him with the problem, and find out what he thinks.
If he too feels the same way as you, then what are you waiting for?!

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