How Can You Have More Friends And Be Outgoing?

You have to get out of your house for a start.  Our house serves as our blanket for food, embarrassment, etc....and it's always nice to be home.  But sometimes, it is also not good to be always staying at home for a long time because, you will lose your cravings to do other things other than watching tv. You will not find being with other people interesting and so therefore you be lead to being by yourself all the time and you will not know how to get out of it.  When sad things occur or happen you will not have other means to rid of it but be desirable at home by yourself = depression.
Go out. Have a lunch out even though it's just yourself, but get out of your house. Go to the Library. B l- s - t with other people...you know, talk, tell a joke.... but go out...Go to senior citizen shelter and get them to enjoy your company - ...just get out of your house.

This is not a big deal that how many friends you are having. One sincere, good and loving friend is better than hundred insincere and cold friends. So, instead of making a lot of friends one should always go for sincerity and true friendships. But the values of all these relations are getting changed as the priorities of our social order are getting changed, in fact getting materialistic.

So, people do not go for true delight but just try to find the ways of passing time in a pleasuring way, as they think that they have so many other pressures in their lives, why should we not get rid of them in either way. This is not a wrong practice to some extent because we have our lives only once, then why should we not leave our tensions and cares behind us. However, all have their own way of thinking as they are free to do that.

As far as your question is concerned to make more friends and going out you must check your personality first. You must be more loving, sincere and friendly with the people you have in your circle. Your attitude must be very polite and tender towards your friends. And never show attitudes your friends on small and big things because in most of the cases, others do not bother our attitudes and moods. So, if you want to be more in with your circle of friends then be polite, tender and friendly with them.

Good friend is a blessing. It does not matter that how many friends you are having. One sincere and loving friend is better than hundred insincere and cold friends. So, instead of making a lot of friends one should always go for sincerity and true friendships. But the values of all these relations are getting changed as the priorities of our social order are getting changed, in fact getting materialistic.

So, people do not go for true delight but just try to find the ways of passing time in a pleasuring way, as they think that they have so many other pressures in their lives, why should we not get rid of them in either way. This is not a wrong practice to some extent because we have our lives only once, then why should we not leave our tensions and cares behind us. However, all have their own way of thinking as they are free to do that.

As far as your question is concerned to make more friends and going out you must check your personality first. You must be more loving, sincere and friendly with the people you have in your circle. Your attitude must be very polite and tender towards your friends. And never show attitudes your friends on small and big things because in most of the cases, others do not bother our attitudes and moods. So, if you want to enjoy more with your friends then be polite, tender and friendly with them.

In order to have a friend, one must first be a friend.

You can have more and more friends if you develop following qualities in you:
1. You should be smiling all the time.
2. You should be soft spoken.
3. You should be well behaved.
4. You should be caring.
5. You should not be critical.
6. You should be helping.
7. You should be a good listener.
8. You should be a problem solver.
9. You should be clean and dress up smartly.
10. You should be witty.

You can be more outgoing if you follow these steps.
1. Join some social clubs.
2. Socialize with your colleagues and other fellows.
3. Throw parties and arrange functions.
4. Try to share your happiness and success with others.
5. Try to share your ideas.
6. Try to help others in their bad times.
7. Show concern over the worries of others.
8. Form some local community organization and actively participate in all its meetings.
9. Help the people of your community to sort out their problems.
10.    Be available to everybody all the time.

By developing the above mentioned qualities and following the above mentioned steps you can have more and more friends and you will be more and more outgoing.

You could join school clubs or any after school activity which you are interested in. There is no better place for you to make friends as you could find others that share your interests.