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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I Need Space With Out Making Him Feel Bad?

Me and my boyfriend spend a lotta time together, it's nice but sometimes I feel as though I never have time to do "girl stuff "/things for myself. I want to tell him that I need time for those things but how do I do it without making him feel bad.

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    Well don't make it sound like you are trying to break up with him because that isn't what you're trying to do. You should plan days away to yourself (start off with just one day in a week) and let him know what you plan to do but it's going to be a day for you. He should be able to understand that, guys like to get away to do guy stuff sometimes too. Also, maybe you guys can pick a day out of the weekend where he spends time with his guy friends and you spend time with your girl friends. Make it seem like a good thing for both of you, not just "I'm around you too much, leave me alone!"
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    Ladylena 

    answered 1 year ago

    Great advice. I couldn't have said it better myself if I tried.
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    Awbtvoss

    Awbtvoss

    commented 1 year ago

    I just think he's guna think that im trying to see someone else...
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    Toe420

    Toe420

    commented 1 year ago

         
         

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