I've Been In A Relationship With My Boyfriend For 3 Years Now And I've Never Been Confident Enough To Strip Tease For Him Or Give Him A Lap Dance.....just To Be More Sexy For Him I Need Some Tips On How To Do This?

well... here are some tips:

1. low lighting and slow sexy music...

2. the outfit, go out and get yourself something naughty and lacy and some heals.

3. you don't have to choreograph it or anything but practice some moves in front of the mirror just to make sure you look good.
  a. body rolls
  b. grab your ankles and shake that thing in his face
  c.  glide your hands over your body
  d. flip your hair around
  e.  pelvic thrusts...

You know how it goes... sit on his lap and gyrate your hips and whisper in his ear....
trust me... it doesn't take much.