How To Deal With My Wifes Neg. Talk On Her Cancer?She Talks About Wanting To Give Up And Just Die.

If she's only been recently diagnosed she could be experiencing acute anxiety and depression about having the cancer. If she's been dealing with it for a good amount of time now the anxiety and depression has had more time to settle in and keep her thinking negatively. I think either way she would benefit greatly from getting involved with a support group where she would be in the company of others who have cancer. There she would learn ways to stay more positive about her condition and learn from others how they cope and accept what is happening with them. A huge benefit to support groups as well is that by spending time with others who suffer the way you do is that it helps you to comfort them and takes you out of yourself. When she can stop focusing on her cancer issue so much and become involved with someone else who is suffering she will learn to put herself aside for the moment and help the other person, be there for them. That has great healing potential for all involved. I know this from experience. You can search the internet for cancer support groups in your area. Best wishes for you and your wife.