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Should I Break Up Or Not?

Together for 2 years he said he was sure I was the one, but then he started hearing rumors I always flirted. Time passed and he told me that he didn't care about my past but he loved me for who I was now.If I let go, he will start talking to women to forget me and go to parties with his friends. He told me we can be together but he will be doing whatever he pleases to do and he will call me whenever he has time.

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    Get out while you can. You can't make him love you the way that you need to be loved. It might feel like the world is going to end if you let him go, but it won't. You will get out with your self respect. Love yourself enough to end it now, before it gets any uglier! You might think that you just wasted two years but really, what is two years in a life time. Life is all about learning and I'm sure you learned some valuable things int his relationship that will help you along the way. And don't be jealous thinking about what he will be doing after you break up. Try to think about what you will be doing!! Besides, you shouldn't hand on to someone just because you don't want to see him with anyone else. That will only hurt you. Focus on yourself and what you can do to make YOU happy. Even when he tries to get you back, because he WILL, don't do it. Do what's right for your own well being. Good luck. With all sincerity, I hope you do what is right for you. I've been there.
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    Mindy0923 

    answered 2 years ago

    Thank you for your help. I broke up with him! I feel better and happier but I'm not going to say I don't miss him because the truth is that I do...I know things will get better each day and I won't be crying everyday because he would say hurtful things :) Thanks for your advice.
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    Qgirlcali

    commented 2 years ago

      If he loves you for who you are, I guess he would say those things to you (I would do anything that pleases me...) because if he does love you, he would respect your feelings and you as his girl friend. But it seems that he is just playing. Try to think over if you can really make amends with his attitude. If not, break up with him.
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      Dude123 

      answered 2 years ago

        Girl! Dump him,he hurt your soul. He not the one for you,  You to advance for him  that why he make excuse. He not use to a woman like you.
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        Llewis 

        answered 2 years ago

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