What Should I Do If I Talk To Many Guys, But They're Just My Friends. But Rumours Are Rising About Me?
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Too many times we worry our heads off thinking about what other people would say regarding our actions. There is something that you should be clear about - people will say stuff no matter what you do or o not do. It is our inherent nature, and a cross we must bear.
As long as what you are doing is not causing any harm, grief, or pain to another person, you are free to do so. Someone wisely said once 'The right to swing my arm ends where the other's nose begins.'
In your case, you are talking to many boys, which in itself is nothing harmful. About the rumors, you can do one of two things. You can either stop talking to too many boys, which is not required in any case, or, as long as you are clear that you are not doing anything wrong, continue to talk to them. I would be sad to let rumors govern your actions.
As long as what you are doing is not causing any harm, grief, or pain to another person, you are free to do so. Someone wisely said once 'The right to swing my arm ends where the other's nose begins.'
In your case, you are talking to many boys, which in itself is nothing harmful. About the rumors, you can do one of two things. You can either stop talking to too many boys, which is not required in any case, or, as long as you are clear that you are not doing anything wrong, continue to talk to them. I would be sad to let rumors govern your actions.
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thanx.. i really appreciate your advice and ill give it some thinking... you do have a point... thanx again!
Talk and actions are two different things, as the person above said people will usually talk, but not until they see a reason to say something like you flirting.. Most rumors start off as a joke and then from one person telling another person somewhere along the line the joke is lost.. Kind of like somebody seeing you hugging a guy or laughing with a guy and they would be like oh yea she wants him but in reality the other person that just made that joke about you missed the fact that you were laughing about a booger on the guy's shirt because they were on the other side of the room. If a girl started the rumor she is jealous in which case you shouldnt worry about it.
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