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Who was more strict when you were growing up, your mother or your father, or neither?

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    My father the low life drunk was more abusive, BUT I broke the cycle and stopped the abuse!
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    Logic101 

    answered 2 years ago

    Good for you. There's a big difference between discipline and abuse.
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    Harka

    Harka

    commented 2 years ago

    You are a very strong person logic! And funny too! lol
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    Desertkid

    Desertkid

    commented 2 years ago

      It would probably have to be my mother, she was always on my behind. Wanting to know, when, where, why, how. Lol  
      It was really annoying then but now I totally understand!
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      Rls909 

      answered 2 years ago

      I bet you're glad NOW that she did keep after you, huh?
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      Desertkid

      Desertkid

      commented 2 years ago

        I believe that both of my parents were strict yet fair, but i think it was more of a shock to hear my father yell rather than my mother, even though both were quite heart wrenching for me (i hated hearing my parents yell at me )
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        Shakeit100 

        answered 2 years ago

        I believe it is very heart-breaking for children to hear parents yell at each other.
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        Desertkid

        Desertkid

        commented 2 years ago

        oh no! They NEVER yelled at each other! They yelled at ME cause i was such a troublemaker.
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        Shakeit100

        Shakeit100

        commented 2 years ago

        So what kind of trouble did you cause?? lol
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        Desertkid

        Desertkid

        commented 2 years ago

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        My parents were equally strict for the most part, and shared the same values and viewpoints on most things.   My father was decidedly more strict when it came dating time, however.
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        Amore01 

        answered 2 years ago

        Definitely Mother - control freak par excellence!
        And no - I am not glad about it now - she managed to screw us both up for a long time.
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        Harka 

        answered 2 years ago

          My mom, no question.  When she got mad at me, she would also get my dad mad at me.
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          Robbier44 

          answered 2 years ago

          Oh, I hate it when that happens! That always happened to me too!
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          Desertkid

          Desertkid

          commented 2 years ago

          Oh no, desert kid, my parents never yelled at each other.  They yelled at ME because i was bratty when i was little!  Haha sorry for the confusion.
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          Shakeit100 

          answered 2 years ago

          My mother was more strict when I was younger, my father was a push over. I was always Daddy's little girl. But then when I became a teenager my father was the warden and when I went to mom's house I felt like I was free again!!!
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          Danieller 

          answered 2 years ago

          My parents are nice, its my granny that's the strict one
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          Des07 

          answered 2 years ago

          Now that you're older, do you respect your granny for being strict with you?
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          Desertkid

          Desertkid

          commented 2 years ago

          Well my father was more than anything! Mothers let things go more because they think things are cute or that it part of being a kid and let them have fun.
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          Herkedjaz 

          answered 2 years ago

          Do you think you will be strict when you have children?
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          Desertkid

          Desertkid

          commented 2 years ago

            My mother. She would say I am going to blister your bare bottom, even though she never left any marks She seemed to like to spank me. She spanked harder than my father and always bare bottom, although they both spanked me on my bare bottom. She also sometimes spanked me with a hairbrush, or ruler and until I cried hard. I was daddy's little girl and he spanked me with his hand  until my bottom was pink. I would cry a little but mostly to get the spanking to stop.As I got older I realised getting spanked by my father was a better deal and my father really never approved of my mothers spankings. He normally spanked me as I got older because he told her he spanked me harder. He told me this after I grew up and was glad to get spanked by him rather than her. Actually my mother was just a mean person to her immediate family members. I was the youngest by many years but heard that she beat my sisters bare bottoms everyday.
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            Guest 

            answered 4 months ago

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