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How Do U Kiss? Well Not The Kiss Part I Mean That Is A Little Self-explanatory But How Do U Go Into The Kiss?

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    Well first of all, the guy or the girl can make the first move. But guys are stereotyped as being subjected to doing it. You have to relax about your first kiss. From past experience, you should not let yourself worry too much. The more you stress, the worse it'll turn out. Ease yourself into it. I don't know if you have heard people telling you to "practice" on something. I remember when I was younger some people told me to try things like a stuffed animal, your own knee, or the back of a spoon. Please, don't waste your time on this. Instinct should show you how to kiss. If you have all these questions, and are fretting overly about this, trust me. You're not ready. Of course, you do reserve the right to be nervous. And may I say, you may not be the best kisser when you first start out. You may be a natural. Who knows?

    If you want some tips to drop a hint or just kissing in general, here:
    • Eye contact is crucial BEFORE you start the kiss so don't look away. Some guys will understand about you being nervous/shy/ect. But some will take it as a sign of rejection. Even if it's not put out to be. When you're about to kiss someone, you feel as if time is slowing down.
    • When you're about to kiss him, just lean forward him simultaneously when he does. That means same time, same speed.
    • Ease your way into the situation. Close your eyes when you're close to him. You'll know how close you have to be to do so.
    • It's only your first kiss, so just keep your hands held in his, or put yours on his cheek, chest, or shoulders. No where lower unless it's your own lap.
    • Once your more experienced, you can try moving your hands everywhere. Like run your fingers through his hair.
    • DO NOT i repeat DO NOT rush into things quickly. Keep the temptations low. That means don't put your hands and keep away his from any thing more. You'll regret it. TRUST ME.
    I wish you luck.
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    Iliketomoo  

    answered 2 weeks ago

    Thank you!!!! You are a life saver i kissed my bf today for the first time and it was perfect!!! (well idk if i am a good or bad kisser but that is ok) i used all your tips and on my side of the kiss everything went well. Again, thank you!
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    Lilly6556

    Lilly6556

    commented 2 weeks ago

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