To:cat Experts My Cat Will Not Listen At All, How Do I Get Them To Listen To Me More?

If the cat is already grown up there is no much you can change about it anymore. Is like a dump grown up kid (sorry for this)
But if is still little, you must be very sharp when the cat eats chees on the table from example so she understands what's good or wrong.
But from a "nasty" thing of her from taking her back into your arms you must let a time, so she gets better the idea. You can even punish her, let's say 15 alone minutes in the bathroom.
Remember a thing, animals don't have such a long memory. So if you punish her for a thing after 3 days she won't understand what's wrong. You must take position instantly.
If she still won't listen, use a newspaper and "kick" her, the sound will scary her a little.I am not saying to beat your cat, I am saying to kick something near to her. This works very good at (dog) pupies.
If the bad behaviors are not chainged till the right time it's hearder or impossible after.
I think that till 9 12 months a cat learns much. But don't let it till 8.
From the moments she can walk and eat good (in 4 paws) teach her where is the food, the water/milk, her "bed", her"toilet". Don't change the positions too often..
I wrote too much but Iwon't erase nothing.