I'm 17 Weeks Pregnant And A Stay At Home Mom With A 4 And 2 Year Old. Married 5 Years. My Husband Left Us. He Says He Doesn't Love Me Anymore. How Do I Get Him Back?

Oh I am so sorry. It sounds scary. But you need to start thinking about yourself and your kids. I left my husband the day my 3rd child was born. I left the hospital, went home, packed up our clothes and moved in with a friend. I didn't have a car, a job or any money. And I had a 3 year old and a new baby at home still. But I had decided enough was enough and I wanted better for my babies.
And it is better now. It's been hard. And it took me over 2 years before I finally filed for divorce. But I'm going back to school. And we are surviving. And I am not scared anymore. I can take care of myself and my children. And so can you. You can. I know you can.
Call a friend. Call your mom. Call a sister. Your minister. Call someone. There is someone there who will help you. Leave a note for me in my shout box and I will answer you whenever I can. You are stronger than you know. You are.

Hon, you DO NOT want him back!!  You're just scared about the future.  Your future has to be your kids now!  If he's happer with his Mommie, let him stay there!! 

1.  First thing to do--contact your children services dept. In your local city, file and get him to start paying some sort of support for those kids. 


2. Second thing to do--go to your local family services dept. And start getting food stamps, medical coverage and anything else you can get to help care for yourself and your babies. 


3. Third thing to do--if you can stay where you're at now, fine.  If not, find out about moving in with someone else (a friend or relative) or low-income housing.  Do this NOW before you find yourself out in the street with no where to live. 


4. Fourth thing to do--check with local churches for food pantrys and the days available.  This will save you big time on your grocery bills.  Some of the churches in my area even have free clothing. 


5. Don't be afraid--you sound very young to me and I bet this is the first time you've been on your own.  You don't want someone who doesn't want you or his kids.  You have a whole life to live yet--make up your mind it's going to be a good one!!

Best of luck!!  If you need any more help or a shoulder to cry on--leave a note in my shoutbox!  God Bless