How Do I Tell My Best Friend Her Boyfriend Isn't Right For Her?
She's known him for 3 months & wants to get married, I'm sure she might be pregnant already. They always seem to argue. And she is blind to his flaws. She always takes him back. And I see how bad she treats her and makes her cry.
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I think you should tell her once how you feel. don't be a nag, just tell her that you are letting her know, for the record, your thoughts on the matter. then you have done your job as a friend. she is likely to continue this relationship anyway- let her know you will be there for her, but that you would be remiss if you stood by and didn't say something.
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I don't know what happened to the last question that I answered (gremlins once again) anyway,
Unfortunately, there is no good way to tell her, she may think you are jealous, and just trying to break them up,. all you can do is be there for her when she needs you, remind her you care about her, and you only want the best for her.
Unfortunately, there is no good way to tell her, she may think you are jealous, and just trying to break them up,. all you can do is be there for her when she needs you, remind her you care about her, and you only want the best for her.
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This is sort of a tuffy. If she only has know him for three months and they are fighting to the point where she has to take him back there are a few RED FLAGS. She wants to get married? And has she told you that she is pregnant or is this an assumption.
If she is your friend you should just tell her the facts. After three months she probably does know him enough to where she sees potential in him or she wouldn't be there. Have a heart to heart ....sounds like you need to
If she is your friend you should just tell her the facts. After three months she probably does know him enough to where she sees potential in him or she wouldn't be there. Have a heart to heart ....sounds like you need to
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I understand she feels for him a lot. And I support her Al the way. I don't want to see my best friend who's like my sister hurting.. And yeah she just recently gave me the news she is pregnant..and the reason I see he isn't right.is cuz he treats her bad to make her cry knowing she's pregnant. And yells at her. Laughs at her and doesn't do anything bout his family laughing at her either.. I'm still helping her. And do have a heart to heart. I even told her do what you think is right. And what your heart says because you can't control how you feel. And only she can know if its right or wrong. I can only guide. But I want to know how
Well if you have had a heart to heart with her you are off to a good start. Telling her your thoughts and feelings is the best way to tell her how you feel. Reminding her of how he treats her might upset her and she might become defensive...Offering her advice as a friend is great she will understand that you are there for her but ultimately she is the one who will have to make the decision. Good luck with this one and remember she is your friend and you should be there for her regardless as to what she chooses.....She might need you
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