What Do Our Kids Want From Us?

Kids want attention from us. In fact, we find ourselves busy in everyday life. It is our life which keeps us rocking all the time. But children are not like us. They have a small mind with a small world. Their world is around us. They think that it is their elders who will give them appropriate time and attention but if we are busy in our activities then we fail to pay heed to kids. This thing really spoils their inside.
Our elders gave us confidence because they gave us full attention but if we are not going to give full attention to our kids then it is our fault. We need to care for them. It is true that we love our kids but what would we lose if we express this love before them at proper time. Children also need guidance from us. They are kids and they don't know how to interact in the world. But we may help them out in this regard. We should be their friend. We can be their loyal friend. We can be their friend of all seasons. Then they will surely share their issues with us and we would be able to help them out.

Kids want care, affection and your time to spend with them. They will be more happy when you spend time with them.

Im a 12 year old girl.
My mom let when i was 9. She had me when  she was 16 or 17. She always had a whole bunch of boy friends that i was supposed to call "dad" and i never knew my real dad
she left me and my 2 year old brothr with my step dad. My brother is my half brother
its really difficult not having a mother around to talk about guys and those wierd feelings and puberty.i didnt cry for 3 years and i let it out now. God im crying now lol i miss her so much
i love her nut hate her for leaving she always had her life devoted to what she wanted smokes and coffee she used to bring me with her to geta 25 cent licorice when she baught the smokes.
Those where the good times.  I never was able to see a healthy realationship. And its sooo hard. So my addvice is pay attention and care