How Do I Go On With My Marriage?
My husband might have a kid out there. She was born 2 months b4 we even began dating. But its said he has known the whole time. He denys it to the fullest. He says hell prove it with a dna test. We've had lots of problems in the past with him lying. Y would he deny it n not come clean now considering its his past n nothing can be done? I told him no more lying n now if i find out he has lied this whole time bout something this serious what do i do?
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It is a very tragic situation you are in. What is past is past and nothing can be undone so your husband must stop lying. Firstly you have to be sure that he has lied to you about his son. It might be possible that he didn't know about it. But on the other hand as you have mentioned he has a history for lying, which means he probably knew about the kid all the time. In this scenario, you have to evaluate your options. If you think you cant tolerate it anymore, you have to leave him as a last resort. That depends on how much you love him. If you feel you want to live with him despite his lies and stuff, then its no problem. Otherwise give him a last chance and if he does it again you can part your ways with him.
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Sweetie the only good advice I can give you without you leading you the wrong way is to seek counceling[ marriage counceling]. You also may need to find a verse in the bible to read together about the problems you are having..God is the way..He has the best answer to your questions..My advice is to ask him.
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